allforthegirl
Mom of 5 boys
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So I need to rant. Please no offence to anyone else. These are my feelings, and I am entitled to them just as you are to yours.
Now with that disclaimer said. I am absolutely peeved that women having their first or second, talk about how that they will never have a girl or boy, what ever gender they are hoping for. OMG seriously???? Have four or five of the same sex then say that they will never have the gender they are looking for. I am not saying they are allowed to be disappointed. I am saying don't say never until you tried numerous times!! Maybe you were meant to have that LO you are looking for after 3 or 4! Or what ever your limit is, but gawd I just want to scream at these women. Sorry I don't pitty you. Maybe this is just me and my GD talking, I know I am not 100% there yet, or if I ever will be. Seriously you can't be serious saying those things you do when you have only have one or two children. Try to be in our position!
Sorry I needed to get this out and this is where I feel the most safe posting it. Again sorry if this offended you, I just needed to get that off my chest!
Now with that disclaimer said. I am absolutely peeved that women having their first or second, talk about how that they will never have a girl or boy, what ever gender they are hoping for. OMG seriously???? Have four or five of the same sex then say that they will never have the gender they are looking for. I am not saying they are allowed to be disappointed. I am saying don't say never until you tried numerous times!! Maybe you were meant to have that LO you are looking for after 3 or 4! Or what ever your limit is, but gawd I just want to scream at these women. Sorry I don't pitty you. Maybe this is just me and my GD talking, I know I am not 100% there yet, or if I ever will be. Seriously you can't be serious saying those things you do when you have only have one or two children. Try to be in our position!
Sorry I needed to get this out and this is where I feel the most safe posting it. Again sorry if this offended you, I just needed to get that off my chest!