motherofboys
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I often wonder if I 'jinxed' myself. I always used to say I wanted boys, I mean I did kind of assume there would be a girl in there somewhere, but I definitely wanted at least 2 boys first. Boys toys are so much cooler and their TV programs so much more exciting. There is always something exploding or some bad guy being chased down and captured.
I did want, at one time, just boys. It was after I had had a couple, and DH mentioned wanting a daughter, and DS1 wanted a sister, and everyone around me kept on about how I must want a girl, that made me feel that I was missing something.
It does seem unfair that some people just do not get to experience both genders. Especially when its something they want so desperately. I think the fact that I was happy with boys to begin with has probably helped me a lot. I know for a lot of the Mums of just boys that I have met through these kinds of sites, they have wanted a girl since their first or second child, or even before.
I did want, at one time, just boys. It was after I had had a couple, and DH mentioned wanting a daughter, and DS1 wanted a sister, and everyone around me kept on about how I must want a girl, that made me feel that I was missing something.
It does seem unfair that some people just do not get to experience both genders. Especially when its something they want so desperately. I think the fact that I was happy with boys to begin with has probably helped me a lot. I know for a lot of the Mums of just boys that I have met through these kinds of sites, they have wanted a girl since their first or second child, or even before.