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[Pinky32]

oh you did honeyC - cant believe i didnt think of it, im such a clutz!

 

[Pinky32]

i was quite down yesterday, thought i was going to see OH then didnt then a friend told me that she was pregnant again (she LO was born in Oct) and shes having an abortion as the timing isnt great for her

WTF! Use a condom!

I know for her its the best thing to do as each time she gets pregnant she gets dehydrated and has to spend most of the pregnancy in hospital but still, take precaution if you dont want another baby yet

shes the only person who knows im ttc so it shocked me the way she just told me

 

[honeycheeks]

i was quite down yesterday, thought i was going to see OH then didnt then a friend told me that she was pregnant again (she LO was born in Oct) and shes having an abortion as the timing isnt great for her

WTF! Use a condom!

I know for her its the best thing to do as each time she gets pregnant she gets dehydrated and has to spend most of the pregnancy in hospital but still, take precaution if you dont want another baby yet

shes the only person who knows im ttc so it shocked me the way she just told me

That was a painful episode of your friend, it would upset anyone who has been TTC for a while. I am glad you are dancing in joy now.

 

[Pinky32]

i cant be selfish in my thoughts, she is doing what is best for her, which i do understand

oh yes im very happy today

 

[honeycheeks]

i cant be selfish in my thoughts, she is doing what is best for her, which i do understand

oh yes im very happy today

you are not being selfish, the point is about prevention. If she dint wish to give life to another baby, she'd rather try to avoid getting pregnant.

 

[Pinky32]

she was the one that told me last year how much more fertile you are when you have just had a baby

you;d think she would have prevented it - this is her second abortion in 3-4 years

 

[honeycheeks]

she was the one that told me last year how much more fertile you are when you have just had a baby

you;d think she would have prevented it - this is her second abortion in 3-4 years

Im sad to say, but that makes her seem like a totally irresponsible woman.

 

[Pinky32]

when she did want her second baby it took her 14 months to conceive

but then again, her doctor told her she had a "3 hour window" each cycle - how bad is that to say

 

[honeycheeks]

when she did want her second baby it took her 14 months to conceive

but then again, her doctor told her she had a "3 hour window" each cycle - how bad is that to say

I am surprised how frequently we find docs who are so crude and insensitive. Aren't they suppose to be human too? I am happy for her that she has all the kids she has ever wanted and hope she does her bit to prevent more disasters.

 

[Pinky32]

thats why we have to remember that their "general" practitioners and not fertility specialists

yeah i hope so - she has two gorgeous LO's and her OH has a LO from a previous marriage

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Hiya ladie's

been so bizzy last 3 day's. Iv missed you girlie's so much. Iv still been having same syptom's for like 4 to 5 day's now. Last 2 day's had acute sence of smell along with feeling really sick. well orderd my IC's today. So should be here by next week the latest. so can get testing again and FF say's my AF is due in 4 day's. yesterday i had spotting again. not load's. couple spot's. Well once again ladie's im off to hit the pillow and will defo spend the day with you girlie's tomorrow.

Sending load's of baby dust x x x

 

[Pinky32]

hey sweetie

ooooh acute smell is apparently a major symptom!!!!!

your still only 10DPO so you still have time for that bfp!

glad you ordered the IC - if you get bfp, then i;ll buy them off you so it wont be wasted money

have a good sleep and we;ll catch up properly tomoz xx

 

[honeycheeks]

On to a new cycle.

 

[Pinky32]

your the 3rd person this morning to have started af

 

[honeycheeks]

your the 3rd person this morning to have started af

is it AF day all over the world.

 

[Pinky32]

i think it is

 

[Pinky32]

how you feeling?

 

[honeycheeks]

how you feeling?

DH came home now,so I am goin to have a good time. we have our weekend now, friday weekend if you remember.... Im just feeling fine, I have come to accept facts. Not expecting too much when I clearly know how things have been for me.

 

[honeycheeks]

I am off now for lunch and spend time with DH. Seeing my doc too in the evening. Will see what she has to say.

 

[Pinky32]

im glad DH is with you and taking you for lunch and its great that its your weekend now

im just sorry she came