Hey My lovely ladies im back and doing Duo Fertility Stalk if you wish

[lisa7781]

came this morning

Well a new cycle Hello CD1

 

[blessedmomma]

im sorry lisa

 

[lisa7781]

It's ok Blessedmomma. maybe this month.....

 

[Aelanu]

Lisa, I just wanted to come and offer some more support...I know you've been through a lot and I just want you to know that some day it will happen. You've probably heard this a lot- but its gonna happen when you least expect it...and probably at the weirdest/worst/craziest time, too. OH and I went almost two years with nothing (and I had tried with previous relationships and never got pregnant...the last time I was 17 and I mc'd) and then bought a FertileFocus ovulation microscope. One month later- BAM! Pregnant. I found out two weeks before I was going home to visit family- and I had every intention of getting shit-faced drunk with my little sister (she's only a year and a half younger) and getting two tats done...so you know all THAT went out the window. We didn't expect it at all....even had plans to go see a specialist when I got home.

So just wait...you'll plan a trip to an amusement park...buy the tickets...and get ready to go..2-3 days before your trip...you'll find out you're pregnant. Mother nature is really f*cked up like that.

I've got my hopes up for you...I know it will happen...but its going to be like me...with the worst luck ever...right before you plan to do something not baby friendly.

I'll be sending all my baby dust your way

 

[lisa7781]

Thanks for your kind words Aelanu.
i am hoping you are right....... However me and my husband noticed this morning his producing less seman then usual a couple of months ago he'd ejaculate about 2 table spoons worth of seaman but the last couple of times his only ejaculated about a tea spoon....... is this normal or is something else going on???????
the only thing different that were doing with him is his now taking vitamins but surely that would make him produce less seaman would it??????
anyone help with this weird question lol

 

[Aelanu]

I'm not sure- I know my OH always produced different amounts of semen depending on how many times we had had sex- one day it could be a whole lot, and the next it could be barely visible- like not even half a teaspoon worth! I guess it depends on how good or intense the orgasm was...but I'm not sure. I could suggest you get his fertility tested if you are really concerned- you CAN buy over the counter male fertility tests. I've seen them online and had considered getting my OH one if we had continued experiencing problems (you know- before we checked me....as he is 10 years my senior and it took 7 years for him and his other baby mama to get their son and he was a year or two older than I am now when he was conceived).

OH started taking vitamins about 3-4 months before I got pregnant in an attempt to get healthier and give us a bigger chance of conceiving....I highly doubt they would hinder the production of sperm.

Speaking of which, you know you can buy over the counter sperm booster vitamins, as well? Check out drugstore.com for both the fertility test and the booster vitamins.

I really do hope and pray that everything works out for you- but I believe in the end, they will. Sometimes its just not our time to have babies...and Mother Nature (the that she is) just doesn't want us getting our babies when we want them...she makes us wait and suffer (because she sucks).

Don't worry- you'll have a little one soon enough- I have faith in you two