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Oh, one other method of relaxing and reducing BP would be to try natal hypnotherapy. It worked well for us as a means of relaxation.
hospital births have been shown to be less safe than a " normal " homebirth so that is crap...
you did the right thing. i wish i could have a homebirth, i have considered it but with my health probs it looks unlikely to be honest. still you never know..there are some great sites on homebirth and the benefits are huge to mother and baby. birth is wayyyy too medicalised in this country
I think hospital birts are mainly statistically less safe because women classed as higher risk are not allowed to have home births - so pretty much only women who are fairly certain to have uncomplicated births are allowed them in the first place. Hence a lower risk rate.
Would I be too late to book a homebirth? Coz its something I would really like to have, had my son in hospital and suffered with PND due to the birth and the way they treated me.
No, I don't think you're too late - as far as I'm aware, the decision about whether you'd be 'allowed' to have one riskwise is taken at 36 weeks i.e. you're not diabetic or anaemic, placenta is in the right place, baby isn't breech etc.
But then I don't know if they can legally stop you from insisting anyway.
I went to that homebirth meeting last night: there are some issues about the right to have one - apparently although you can insist, by law the local health authority only has to provide a paramedic, not a mw!
And the biggest threat to getting one is if the hospital is low-staffed e.g. through holiday or sick leave.
Also, one girl told a story about her friend, who had a perfectly normally progessing labour, was dilated to 9cm and then had to go to hosp as her mw was going off shift and there was no one to come out and replace her! Apparently it slowed everything down completely and turned out to be less than she had hoped for.
hospital births have been shown to be less safe than a " normal " homebirth so that is crap...
you did the right thing. i wish i could have a homebirth, i have considered it but with my health probs it looks unlikely to be honest. still you never know..there are some great sites on homebirth and the benefits are huge to mother and baby. birth is wayyyy too medicalised in this country
I think hospital birts are mainly statistically less safe because women classed as higher risk are not allowed to have home births - so pretty much only women who are fairly certain to have uncomplicated births are allowed them in the first place. Hence a lower risk rate.
thing is it is not about being " not allowed "
nobody can stop you having a home birth and a midwife by law has to attend you.
hospital births have far higher likelihood of medical interventions which are far more risky.. the epidurals lead to higher risk of other medical procedures inc caesarean, episiotomy, ventouse etc.
lots of stats on the safety of homebirth in particular on the yahoo homebirth group.
if i am still on morphine i will not have one purely becaus my child will ned after birth care, but i am trying to work on that. my compromise is a natural birth in a pool in a midwife unit.