hi kate! i know what you mean about hospitals... another thing, you get NO REST in hospital! i had my baby at home but then had to transfer because my placenta wouldn't come and I ended up being stuck in for almost a week what with one thing and another... and i got NO SLEEP. it was always meal time or visiting time or time to hae the room cleaned, or time for the midwife on duty to pop in and introduce herself at shift change, or time to have my temp and blood pressure taken, or time to take my meds, or time to express..... ARGH! No sleep I tell you... no sleep!