Kandy why don't you get it looked at just for some sort of verdict? It is also still early days. It won't be any consolation but I've discovered I have polyps along my epis scar - something that seems actually to be quite common but goes unreported I guess because they take a while to develop. It's been responsible for all kinds of discomfort, my painful perineal massage etc. It was 8 months from my epis before we could dtd, I thought i was totally ruined. I'm hoping that if I need stitches this time they can whip the polyp off, also that it won't come off during delivery and bleed profusely raising pph concerns!
Anyway I have been taking matters into my own hands and not even a BH as a consequence so I'm not sure it's doing anything!! I've had two contractions today. Boooooo!
I don't know of a homebirth baby thread but it would be fun to keep chatting baby together.