Home waterbirth

Yeah I really didn't care at the time, he said he was happy to do something as I think he was full of energy , you will be so busy with baby it will all be cleared away before you even realise :)
Oooo fingers crossed I'm sure she will
 
Yes, submersible water pump (you can get them specifically for birth pools) but I imagine you could get a much cheaper one at like B&Q. Also, as far as clean up, tell your husband not to stress about it. I had a home birth and though I didn't give birth in the pool (I actually didn't like it as much as I thought), it still needed to be emptied. I have no idea who did it or how, but before the midwives left it was done. One of them just did it and cleaned up for us.

Also, lots and lots of towels and shower curtains for keeping you and your floor dry. Get twice as many as you think you need because you might end up moving around more than you think. I ended up wandering around my upstairs between the bathroom and bedroom in between pushing (who knew that would be possible or comfortable?!?) and when the time came for my daughter to be born, most of the floor coverings were in the lounge under and around the pool. I gave birth in my bedroom squatting on the floor and the poor carpet did take a bit of a hit.

Also, think about whatever you need in order to get the atmosphere to be just right for you. I had aromatherapy oils burning, candles and fairy lights lit, my relaxation music playing, etc. And plan the snacks and drinks both you and your partner might need. I had tea and porridge with honey in early labour, and then was eating honey, dates and glucose gel once I was pushing. I also drank nearly 3 litres of coconut water. That stuff is great! I had lots of biscuits and granola bars for the midwives and my husband (and whatever else was in the kitchen they wanted).

It's great you're planning a home birth. Though I wasn't as keen as I'd hoped on the water (I hate baths and swimming, so it's no surprise, and I was fine managing the pain without the pool), having my daughter at home was the best thing I could have ever done. I sometimes doubt plenty of other parenting choices we make, but home birth is the one thing I've never doubted. It was wonderful and I'm so proud of myself (and my husband) for giving her that start to life.
 
I'm sorry but the idea of lying in a tub of water filled with my own bodily fluids really makes me want to puke lol. However I guess it could be a cool experience and I have heard that the water does help alot with the pain...good luck though hope it goes well xx
 
You can buy pumps for waterbeds. The first on my list of needs would be a midwife, I think some have their own baths.

Personally I wouldn't give birth at home as a lot can go wrong but it's your decision so good luck.

Home birth in the UK has been proven to be safer for low risk pregnancies than entering an unfamiliar surrounding like a hospital.

Births often tend to be shorter as well.

Completely agree, my ex SIL was a midwife and her and all her colleagues had their babies at home as your in your own environment with your own germs without having to share a midwife with up to 5 other women so in a normal pregnancy, its safer.

It's really frowned upon in my country by anyone I've spoken to in the medical profession. I like the idea myself and I plan to spend as much time as possible at home before going into the hospital but I will be delivering in the hospital. Funny how views are different in different countries.
 
You can buy pumps for waterbeds. The first on my list of needs would be a midwife, I think some have their own baths.

Personally I wouldn't give birth at home as a lot can go wrong but it's your decision so good luck.

Home birth in the UK has been proven to be safer for low risk pregnancies than entering an unfamiliar surrounding like a hospital.

Births often tend to be shorter as well.

Completely agree, my ex SIL was a midwife and her and all her colleagues had their babies at home as your in your own environment with your own germs without having to share a midwife with up to 5 other women so in a normal pregnancy, its safer.

It's really frowned upon in my country by anyone I've spoken to in the medical profession. I like the idea myself and I plan to spend as much time as possible at home before going into the hospital but I will be delivering in the hospital. Funny how views are different in different countries.

It is isn't it!! You would think the "art" of delivering babies would be the same everywhere! What country are you in if you don't mind me asking? X x
 
I'm listed for a HB but my consultant scared us with all the increased chance of this n that because I'm a little overweight so now considering a hospital birth!

But all these positive HB stories are keeping me optimistic! ;0)
 
Im hoping for a home birth and it was actually my midwife who brougt up the subject and is encouraging it. All these posts are so useful as I find it is other peoples opinions if I mention home birth that puts a dampner on it. My gut feeling is its right for me and I am lucky to have a midwife not only supporting that but encouraging it. Thanks ladies for sharing xx
 
I'm listed for a HB but my consultant scared us with all the increased chance of this n that because I'm a little overweight so now considering a hospital birth!

But all these positive HB stories are keeping me optimistic! ;0)

Im hoping for a home birth and it was actually my midwife who brougt up the subject and is encouraging it. All these posts are so useful as I find it is other peoples opinions if I mention home birth that puts a dampner on it. My gut feeling is its right for me and I am lucky to have a midwife not only supporting that but encouraging it. Thanks ladies for sharing xx

What's helped me when I've gotten a little nervous is just thinking about the midwives. They are not going to let anything happen and you will be closely (discreetly) monitored and if they think something isn't looking quite right they'll say. That's when you accept the transfer into hospital.

:thumbup:
 
I'm hoping for a home birth this time but im worried about the cleaning up. D is a superstar and would do it no problems but depending on the time of day/where my 2 lo's are he may have them to look after too.

Quite a lot of my friends have had home births so I'm hoping mine goes as smoothly.
 
This is a really good thread :D

I am expecting my first and looking into a HB (got the pool already). But I find that generally people seem to be very uncomfortable around the subject. So i dont get to talk about it to be honest.

This is great!
 
This is a really good thread :D

I am expecting my first and looking into a HB (got the pool already). But I find that generally people seem to be very uncomfortable around the subject. So i dont get to talk about it to be honest.

This is great!
I know exactly what you mean so I only talk now to my Hubby or midwife about it
 
I find people are generally very rude about it :growlmad:

I'm sure that every woman who decides to have a homebirth has looked into the risks and benefits before making that decision but people just don't get that!!
For me I know that I have to try this!! If I need to transfer then so be it, but if you really look into it and read all the background on birth/fear/intervention then its surprising that so may women just go with what the doctors say without having researched their options first....

BUT saying that I am a strong believer in that it is every womans choice to birth where/how she wants to and I will never tell a woman what she should do based on my own opinion....maybe that's why it annoys me so much when others do the same to me :shrug:
If you feel safer in a hospital then that's the best place for you, simple! All I would ever say to someone is to just look into things and do a bit of research on your options, not just on birth location but even ante natal classes etc just so you get to have as much say as possible!! :thumbup:

Anyway, sorry, that turned into a mini rant :dohh: Love being able to read positive things about homebirth :happydance:
 
I'm so sorry!!

I saw this thread yesterday and swore I had replied then, which is why I just posted that, but now it just looks like I barged into the conversation :dohh::dohh:

Blame pregnancy brain for that one :winkwink:
 
Unfortunately this time I found the specialist home birth team were anti-homebirth for any woman they consider to be higher risk in any way-even though my normal community midwife and the hospitals don't consider me high risk, these doomsday merchants did! They were also pushing for me to go for consultant appointments, extra blood tests and the GTT at 37 weeks :o. In the end I decided no to a homebirth because I really had a bad feeling they would be looking for things to go wrong and then bully me into transferring to hospital for no sound medical reason- even though they admitted they had attended births of women who were into double figures and they had no complications to deal with, I am only on baby number 5. Unfortunately they know all too well that at that stage of pregnancy women aren't exactly in fight mode and are very likely to just back down if there is any opposition :(

It depends on your area but in my old area where I did have a homebirth the midwives cleaned up 95% of the mess. The other 5% was cleaned up by throwing some stuff in the wash and mopping a tiny area of floor, no problem at all xx
 
I had a great home water birth first time around but stupidly hadn't considered the whole getting the water back out thing :haha: My poor mum and DH had to empty it with buckets! Still, it only took half an hour or so. The midwives also helped out with cleaning everything up and it didn't take long at all.

This time I'm planning on another home water birth and DH said to me the other day, for God's sake buy a pump to get the water out this time!

I find that people are more shocked than anything, which saddens me a little because it shows how medicalised and clinical birth has become. Usually they say to me you're brave! Although I have noticed that I seem to be changing the perspectives of my girlfriends, none of whom have kids yet. They seem fascinated by my first birth and more open to a more natural one themselves.
 
I'm listed for a HB but my consultant scared us with all the increased chance of this n that because I'm a little overweight so now considering a hospital birth!

But all these positive HB stories are keeping me optimistic! ;0)

Im hoping for a home birth and it was actually my midwife who brougt up the subject and is encouraging it. All these posts are so useful as I find it is other peoples opinions if I mention home birth that puts a dampner on it. My gut feeling is its right for me and I am lucky to have a midwife not only supporting that but encouraging it. Thanks ladies for sharing xx

What's helped me when I've gotten a little nervous is just thinking about the midwives. They are not going to let anything happen and you will be closely (discreetly) monitored and if they think something isn't looking quite right they'll say. That's when you accept the transfer into hospital.

:thumbup:

Very true! Our hospital is a 40 min drive away though and alot could happen in that time...

This really is the only thing putting me off!
 
Mines 45-50mins away and about 25min on blue light transfer. The chances of it bring a real emergency though are rare, and more than likely it'll be something like failure to progress x
 
special_kala, not sure whether anyone mentioned this yet, but my midwife gave me an awesome tip for emptying the pool after birth. If you live up high, you can put the hose from the tub out the window and most of it will empty that way. DH used a bucket for the rest, which wasn't much.

You can alternatively make the hose go from your tub to a sink somewhere lower and a lot of it will empty that way. My DH didn't end up looking where he was aiming the hose out the window, but that's another story altogether... :haha:
 
I'd love a home water birth, but sadly can't take the risk. With Joshua I'd decided on water birth, and was looking into home birth, until I was told I'd have to have a c section and get him out early. If it wasn't for the risk that this baby might have the same condition and need emergency nicu treatment, I'd much rather be at home. I can't stand hospitals and get very nervous/agitated when I'm there. However, I live in a terrace house where I can hear my neighbours phone ring, so don't know how they'd feel about it!! (Nor my landlord after having brand new cream carpets fitted 2 weeks ago!!). Oh how I wish for a low risk pregnancy one day so I can have the birth I want :( x
 
Even your average emergency csection takes 30 minutes to set up, most taking more.

When you have a homebirth they let the ambulance service know. I had a very non emergency transfer and they were still at my house within 10 minutes.
 

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