Lara310809
Mum of 3 girls
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I think you have a right to be upset. Of course you never expect to forget about pain you've felt in the past, but if he does love you and this baby more than he ever loved her, then he should be able to get over it and be happy, despite those memories.
And I don't agree with drinking when you're angry, upset, unhappy etc. It only escalates problems. If he's drinking, I recommend waiting to talk to him about this, but I would definitely talk to him about it eventually.
If my husband was noping about thinking about an ex, I would assume he was moping because he preferred to be with her, not me. Of course I'm not saying that's what david is thinking, but that's what I would be thinking if I was in your position.
I hope there's a simpler explanation behind it. Perhaps his confidence took a dip that day, and remembering the day is hard in itself because of what he experienced, but not necessarily because he lost her that day.
And I don't agree with drinking when you're angry, upset, unhappy etc. It only escalates problems. If he's drinking, I recommend waiting to talk to him about this, but I would definitely talk to him about it eventually.
If my husband was noping about thinking about an ex, I would assume he was moping because he preferred to be with her, not me. Of course I'm not saying that's what david is thinking, but that's what I would be thinking if I was in your position.
I hope there's a simpler explanation behind it. Perhaps his confidence took a dip that day, and remembering the day is hard in itself because of what he experienced, but not necessarily because he lost her that day.