Lesli45
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This thread is really interesting and always a hot topic. I just had to add my 2 cents.
I don't smoke and I am another one of the ones who hasn't touched alcohol since I became pregnant. Like so many on here have stated we are all different and all entitled to our opinions. Just because I think that alcohol is a risk for me doesn't mean that I judge someone else who thinks a glass or two is ok. Especially since some health professionals condone it as acceptable. I'm not telling that person she is a bad mother or a child abuser...what I'm saying is that for me it's a risk. The fact that there is so much debate on here about what's safe and what's not, for ME is enough to warrant not having any drink. Plus the thought of it makes me ill so that's a plus lol.
Anyways, I can understand why it's get so heated but don't understand a few of the comments on both sides. Just because I decide not to drink alcohol or cut out caffeine doesn't mean that should be compared to avoiding crossing the street or avoiding pollution. The fact is I can't control pollution or getting hit by a bus but I can control what goes into my body. And I do have to say that I also don't ever understand the argument, well my friend smoked like a chimney and her kids are ok, because that doesn't mean her next one will be or that others haven't felt the ill effects. Why risk it? The studies are there...
I'm not perfect. I detest veggies and fruits during this pregnancy and have to force them down. I try to drink my water but don't always get as much as I should. I've had the odd McDonald's burger. For me, the point is that I try. Just like the smokers who have tried to quit or have cut down. At least you are trying and my hat goes off to you. I can't imagine having to kick an addiction cold turkey that is comparable to a heroin addiction. And for those who have 1 or 2 glasses, I don't judge at all, I'm just saying it's not for me. For those who just say, it's my body and I can do whatever I want (in excess) I guess I just don't get since it is no longer just your body anymore, it's shared space and that little kiddo in there doesn't have a say.
Anyways, I'm really tired today so I'm kind of all over the map here. For those smokers trying to quit or cut back, good luck to you. Wishing everyone well in their pregnancies!
I don't smoke and I am another one of the ones who hasn't touched alcohol since I became pregnant. Like so many on here have stated we are all different and all entitled to our opinions. Just because I think that alcohol is a risk for me doesn't mean that I judge someone else who thinks a glass or two is ok. Especially since some health professionals condone it as acceptable. I'm not telling that person she is a bad mother or a child abuser...what I'm saying is that for me it's a risk. The fact that there is so much debate on here about what's safe and what's not, for ME is enough to warrant not having any drink. Plus the thought of it makes me ill so that's a plus lol.
Anyways, I can understand why it's get so heated but don't understand a few of the comments on both sides. Just because I decide not to drink alcohol or cut out caffeine doesn't mean that should be compared to avoiding crossing the street or avoiding pollution. The fact is I can't control pollution or getting hit by a bus but I can control what goes into my body. And I do have to say that I also don't ever understand the argument, well my friend smoked like a chimney and her kids are ok, because that doesn't mean her next one will be or that others haven't felt the ill effects. Why risk it? The studies are there...
I'm not perfect. I detest veggies and fruits during this pregnancy and have to force them down. I try to drink my water but don't always get as much as I should. I've had the odd McDonald's burger. For me, the point is that I try. Just like the smokers who have tried to quit or have cut down. At least you are trying and my hat goes off to you. I can't imagine having to kick an addiction cold turkey that is comparable to a heroin addiction. And for those who have 1 or 2 glasses, I don't judge at all, I'm just saying it's not for me. For those who just say, it's my body and I can do whatever I want (in excess) I guess I just don't get since it is no longer just your body anymore, it's shared space and that little kiddo in there doesn't have a say.
Anyways, I'm really tired today so I'm kind of all over the map here. For those smokers trying to quit or cut back, good luck to you. Wishing everyone well in their pregnancies!