How do you survive? anyone??

[wantjust1more]

Oh I'll be here. All I can think about is being pregnant. I really want to know what my chances are and "IUI with Clomid has a 20% success rate" isn't good enough! Lol

Im just so confused with my cycle. I dont know if i should go by LP days of ovulation days or CD days to expect af.. im so confused.

I'd go with expecting your BFP or AF 14 days after IUI... If you caught the egg, that's when you could pretty confidently test at least.

So this friday... oh boy closer than i thought and the symptoms aren't convincing me otherwise than it's just af

 

[Laurana]

Yeah- it's not far off... Symptoms aren't the best indicator though... I'd give it a couple more days then try a test.

 

[SweetV]

I am right there with you ladies! First couple times with no waiting just bam pregnant (unfortunately the last two were not meant to be). Now after NTNP since last May after my D&C and TRYING since last November the wait is killing me from CD1 I start counting the days until testing. I use to live pay check to pay check now it's af to test day!

 

[Laurana]

I am right there with you ladies! First couple times with no waiting just bam pregnant (unfortunately the last two were not meant to be). Now after NTNP since last May after my D&C and TRYING since last November the wait is killing me from CD1 I start counting the days until testing. I use to live pay check to pay check now it's af to test day!

Haha! Yes it is AF to AF - I just told my husband that we can't choose a new car type until after this cycle. He must think I'm insane.

 

[wantjust1more]

I am right there with you ladies! First couple times with no waiting just bam pregnant (unfortunately the last two were not meant to be). Now after NTNP since last May after my D&C and TRYING since last November the wait is killing me from CD1 I start counting the days until testing. I use to live pay check to pay check now it's af to test day!

Right!!! The pay check to pay check is out the window!! I think I'm more impatient this cycle because I'm expecting iui to work, but I'm prepared (somewhat) if its not. I saw DH's sperm under the microscope and that's all I'm thinking about those babies, millions of them, praying one came into the proper area. the wait is rough, and i keep testing (like this morning) and each bfn i get, I'm getting more discouraged.

 

[wantjust1more]

Yeah- it's not far off... Symptoms aren't the best indicator though... I'd give it a couple more days then try a test.

I tested this morning. Figured use the one i have so i can stop thinking about testing. Bfn.. My hopes are diminishing...
I thought by 11dpiui people start getting bfps if pg..

 

[Laurana]

11 days is still early!!! I keep thinking about little spermies swimming around and my egg (hopefully mixed with a little spermy) drifting though my tube. There was definitely a egg and sperm in the same place at the same time- it seems to EASY!

 

[wantjust1more]

11 days is still early!!! I keep thinking about little spermies swimming around and my egg (hopefully mixed with a little spermy) drifting though my tube. There was definitely a egg and sperm in the same place at the same time- it seems to EASY!

Well, since I've used all my tests but one there's no reason to test no except wait it out..
So why do people get early bfps?
I'm just driving myself crazy!!
It does seem easy!! Ready for this

 

[Laurana]

I have at least a week before I can test. I need to come up with ideas on how to pass the time...

 

[wantjust1more]

I have at least a week before I can test. I need to come up with ideas on how to pass the time...

You and me both... I'm going crazy.
I'm thinking of going for a walk everyday.. just walk and walk.. I say that now but by the timei get none I'm exhausted..

I'm going to wait a week with you and pray that we don't see

 

[Laurana]

Walking would be bad for me- I'd just wander around thinking about if I'm pregnant or not... I'd notice all the babies and pregnant women along the way.

I need something to occupy my mind... Maybe time to start a really good book. I don't know. I wish there was something I could do to help my chances right now. It's hard to know that it's just a couple days where we can actually DO anything to get pregnant. The rest of the month is just waiting.

In other news.... I'm no longer saying when AF is due. I'm saying my BFP is due by aug 17th. It sounds so much better to me.

 

[wantjust1more]

Walking would be bad for me- I'd just wander around thinking about if I'm pregnant or not... I'd notice all the babies and pregnant women along the way.

I need something to occupy my mind... Maybe time to start a really good book. I don't know. I wish there was something I could do to help my chances right now. It's hard to know that it's just a couple days where we can actually DO anything to get pregnant. The rest of the month is just waiting.

In other news.... I'm no longer saying when AF is due. I'm saying my BFP is due by aug 17th. It sounds so much better to me.

that sounds alot better to me too so my expected is August 16th!!! I love it-- positivity!!!

 

[Electricat]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

 

[wantjust1more]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

 

[Electricat]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

yeah...

but..nah

 

[Laurana]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

yeah...

but..nah

I assure you- it definitely can happen later. Many women won't get there BFP until a solid 14dpo or later

 

[Electricat]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

yeah...

but..nah

I assure you- it definitely can happen later. Many women won't get there BFP until a solid 14dpo or later

Ofcourse it can - I'm just saying, to me - BFN at 11DPO I don't even test more until AF arrives, cuz I know I'm out.

 

[wantjust1more]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

yeah...

but..nah

welp, I am NOT giving up. So waiting until my BFP, and IT WILL be here. I have faith and hope.

 

[wantjust1more]

Seems like the world revolves around three days of the month for me
9DPO - first day of possible BFP - to 11DPO where if it's not positive by then, it's not gonna happen that month.
Such an anti climax every cycle

and people say implantation can happen on 12dpo..

yeah...

but..nah

I assure you- it definitely can happen later. Many women won't get there BFP until a solid 14dpo or later

Thank you for ALWAYS reassuring me

 

[Laurana]

I was late and still had a BFN with one of my kids. It's not over until the red lady sings! Plus something as simple as drinking too much water can make it impossible to get a +.

So anyway... I'm now 3 3/4 dpo to be specific. Symptoms setting in from SOMETHING - be it meds, baby or the witch. Trigger shot is still giving me VERY positive tests. I hope it's out of my system soon or I won't know if I have a BFP or not... Stopping at the dollar store for some cheapies to keep testing until I get a negative.