I am 8 weeks,4 days. On Monday, I had my first maternal care appt and had an orientation. My first actual appt is on the 30 when I will be 11 weeks. I was really hoping to get an ultrasound but nurses told me my first ultrasound will be at 20 weeks in December and that is when I'll know the sex of the baby. They also mentioned how an ultrasound isn't neccessary at the moment but I really just wanted to see my baby. It's going to cost me $500 out of pocket since my insurance won't cover it