We were together 9 and half years when I fell pregnant with LO (the month or so we were going to start first IVF cycle, 2 years after a mc); if I had known I could have children (had been told PCOS would make it almost impossible, they were wrong!), we would have started trying alot earlier and perhaps not waited until early 40s to 'throw away contraception'; we met in 2001, married in 2008 and had little one in 2012; oh, well....
best wishes