misspriss
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Okay, I love Christmas, and family, and well thought out meaningful gifts. But my husband's family gives a ton of cheap, plastic, branded toys that I dislike. I keep having to weed out toys from DS, and now we have DD this year too. I am trying to cut back.
How can I ask my inlaws to limit themselves to one or two quality toys per child? Is this even possible? And they are over at our house at least 1-2 times per week, so it's not like I can just not keep things I don't like, lest they be offended.
I also only plan to get one big item per child and a few small ones, I don't want grandma and grandpas gifts to outshine our family celebration, if that makes sense. I want my son to value the few things we get him, not get all excited about the heaps of stuff he gets there...
I guess I just need to be honest with my MIL about it, but it's such an awkward conversation.
How can I ask my inlaws to limit themselves to one or two quality toys per child? Is this even possible? And they are over at our house at least 1-2 times per week, so it's not like I can just not keep things I don't like, lest they be offended.
I also only plan to get one big item per child and a few small ones, I don't want grandma and grandpas gifts to outshine our family celebration, if that makes sense. I want my son to value the few things we get him, not get all excited about the heaps of stuff he gets there...
I guess I just need to be honest with my MIL about it, but it's such an awkward conversation.