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I worry about this too.. when I got with my now OH, FOB was threatening us with everything.. even making false accusations to social services.
I really thought OH would walk as it was too much stress but i have tried to keep a lot of it separate from him. I consider it two sides of my life that shouldn't cross.. so FOB is the past and OH is the present and I try to keep the two separate and not talk about FOB with OH.
Is there a way of stopping the hassle from FOB?? This is what I had to do, it involved supervised visits until he stopped harrassing me but, although he is still causing me problems with court and things, it has stopped FOB from dragging my OH into it so I can keep him out of it.
No one should be hassling you, but at the same time your now OH shouldn't be putting more stress on you either but saying the things he is. He should be supportive too.
I hope you can sort it out and that the hassle stops.
xxx
I worry about this too.. when I got with my now OH, FOB was threatening us with everything.. even making false accusations to social services.
I really thought OH would walk as it was too much stress but i have tried to keep a lot of it separate from him. I consider it two sides of my life that shouldn't cross.. so FOB is the past and OH is the present and I try to keep the two separate and not talk about FOB with OH.
Is there a way of stopping the hassle from FOB?? This is what I had to do, it involved supervised visits until he stopped harrassing me but, although he is still causing me problems with court and things, it has stopped FOB from dragging my OH into it so I can keep him out of it.
No one should be hassling you, but at the same time your now OH shouldn't be putting more stress on you either but saying the things he is. He should be supportive too.
I hope you can sort it out and that the hassle stops.
xxx
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I split up with the father of the baby I'm carrying partly cos he couldn't put up with FOB #1.
FOB made such a big deal about 1 little bruise they got from play fighting, but they loved beating the crap out of each other.
There was nothing I could do to stop the break up (it was a cultural thing for him) but I think it's useful to put yourself in there shoes and imagine having to see and hear about an interfering ex-girlfriend for the next 18yrs.
FOB made such a big deal about 1 little bruise they got from play fighting, but they loved beating the crap out of each other.
There was nothing I could do to stop the break up (it was a cultural thing for him) but I think it's useful to put yourself in there shoes and imagine having to see and hear about an interfering ex-girlfriend for the next 18yrs.
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