I feel bad :(

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by princessp, Dec 11, 2009.

  1. princessp

    princessp Member

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    Hi all,
    Me and my bf are ttc. But my best friend who had a miscarriage 6 months ago and 3 months ago broke up with her bf. I know she is still upset and brings up the baby and says she cannot be around pregnant people because she feels they are rubbing it in.
    But were ttc and I want a baby so much. I hate that I cant share that with her, so I keep to myself.
    However I dread (and also cant wait for) the day I get pregnant.
    I dont know how she will react though or even if she will want to know me anymore.
     
  2. Sue Dunhym

    Sue Dunhym Mum of 1

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    That's something to deal with when the time comes. In the meantime, you have to be sensitive - if she doesn't want to talk about TTC, then don't. If and when you do get pregnant, it may be that she'll find it hard to be around you. That'll be hard for you too. But you'll have to be the stronger one and accept her feelings graciously. You have a partner and other friends, share your joy and worries with them.
     

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