I need a TTC friend :*(

[mrswemyss]

I have only been trying since last july, but it feels like an eternity when 5 of my friends are prego and one just had twins (started trying when I did)!!!

 

[Nikkilewis14]

I have only been trying since last july, but it feels like an eternity when 5 of my friends are prego and one just had twins (started trying when I did)!!!

Awe man i know that feeling! Im having an awful night.. Hubby and i just got into a major verbal fight and we barely argue.... I dont know if its cuz im ovulating and hormonal or what.... I need to vent... He turns 30 tomorrow... My mom just had back surgury and i already had a nice b day for him, went to a nice expensive dinner, went to the casino and i got him 400$ tosh.o tickets in nyc in two weeks and he was supposed to come w me to my moms tonight to help me w her cuz my stedad had to go to his daughters and she needs help gojng to the bathroom and all..and ever since 11 am this morning hes been playing this huge 30 b day she bang tonight at the casino with all his buddies...i just feel so angry and upset at the same time.. Hes never done anything like this to me before... I just want to scream..and its my ovulation time and i dont even want to dtd with him im so livid... Grrrrrrrrrrr i can scream!

 

[future_momma]

My story :

DB is 23 and I'm 21. We've been together since October but have been best friends for years now and grew up 2 houses down from eachother (I didn't know he even exsisted). Fast forward several years and he's dating (soon to be married to) my ex's sister. Fast forward a few more years and he's best friends with my ex husband and I'm friends with his wife and their new born son is now my god son. Come forward to present day and you get our Jerry Springer relationship

Our ds is 3 now and after missing a depo shot back in October, we figured we'd give it ago on having another baby, not knowing how long it would take. Since then, we've bought a house and have gotten a 11 week old border collie to befriend our year old border collie mix.

The more and more we settle down, the more we want a baby to complete our little family. This will be his second and my one and only ( or that's the plan!) As for marriage, we've both decided that we're in no rush. We've both been married and divorced and it just doesn't seem to be something we "need" in order to have a child. We're happy and that's all that matters to us.

Until I found this site, I was really down on myself. I thought there had to be something wrong with me since I was a healthy 21 year old having a hard time becoming pregnant. This site has been a god send to me and I really love the support. I hope you all get your BFP soon and maybe some of us can even be bump buddies

I believe in fate and you 2 were definetly fated for each other. No coincidence you crossed paths so much. I know you will have a baby together. I feel it in my gut I just dont know when.

Thank you! I believe so too There has to be a reason we crossed paths so much! I never thought I'd have such a hard time getting pregnant though since I'm healthy,active 21 year old :/

You know I thought that way too I started TTC at 18. I was healthy then problems with the cycles began later and I was diagnosed with PCOS. *sigh* I hope you have no problems down the road.

 

[future_momma]

Can I join? IM 23 DF 21 and we've been ttc for 2 years off and on. Been pregnant twice but miscarried right now I'm taking fertilaid and soy isoflavenones. I also have pcos.

You know....my doc told me to stay clear of soy especially soy isoflavones. She told me that when I told her I was taking it. Thats when she prescribed me clomid.

 

[future_momma]

I have only been trying since last july, but it feels like an eternity when 5 of my friends are prego and one just had twins (started trying when I did)!!!

Awe man i know that feeling! Im having an awful night.. Hubby and i just got into a major verbal fight and we barely argue.... I dont know if its cuz im ovulating and hormonal or what.... I need to vent... He turns 30 tomorrow... My mom just had back surgury and i already had a nice b day for him, went to a nice expensive dinner, went to the casino and i got him 400$ tosh.o tickets in nyc in two weeks and he was supposed to come w me to my moms tonight to help me w her cuz my stedad had to go to his daughters and she needs help gojng to the bathroom and all..and ever since 11 am this morning hes been playing this huge 30 b day she bang tonight at the casino with all his buddies...i just feel so angry and upset at the same time.. Hes never done anything like this to me before... I just want to scream..and its my ovulation time and i dont even want to dtd with him im so livid... Grrrrrrrrrrr i can scream!

I am sorry. That sounds so frustrating. I think I would react the same way as you. Unfortunately, I dont know what advice to give you.

 

[mrswemyss]

men.... I know the feeling!! I love my hunny but sometimes I could give him a swift kick in the... butt i guess
If he has never done it before I would let him know how upset you are and let it go from there! maybe you can make up later

 

[mrswemyss]

ps!! I am new here and do not have any friends and/or understand how this place works. I would like yall gals to add me Lately this baby making is stressing me out!

 

[sugarpi24]

hey i want to join too My name is Brandi and me and DH have been trying since June 11th 2011....we have been together for 5 years and married 2 years..i always thought it would be awhile til i wanted kids but i went garage saling (which i LOVE to do) and bought my first baby buy...thats what started this whole i want a baby...DH has currently banned me from buying anymore baby stuff online due to the room upstairs getting full (figured that way we could save later on when we could focus on Doctor bills ) ..but so far no BFPs...i was diagnosed with hypothyroidism a year ago and its been wacky since...my level was 64 the first time i got tested which is the worst my doctor has seen...then it went down to 12..then up to 24 increased meds...then it went down to 5...then down to 3.9 uped my dosage...then up to 4...uped my dosage. lol its been crazy. im seeing a specialist about it...i have Hashimotos which causes my thyroid issues. ive missed 2 periods...which is weird since i never missed when my level was 64...but now that its down below 10...im missing...doesnt make sense...been tested for PCOS negative on that. i do have a small cyst on one of my ovaries...doctor wasnt to concerned...im currently on CD59...no AF...still BFN. i never thought getting pregnant would be so hard! im getting frustrated because doctors are saying that im missing my periods due to my thyroid..but if my thyroid is in "range" ( 4 ) why am i missing it...i know when TTC it should be 1-2...thats my story...I would love to be TTC buddies with anyone If you can handle my "rants" and confusing journey Good luck everyone on their BFP

 

[littlemisscie]

I have only been trying since last july, but it feels like an eternity when 5 of my friends are prego and one just had twins (started trying when I did)!!!

Awe man i know that feeling! Im having an awful night.. Hubby and i just got into a major verbal fight and we barely argue.... I dont know if its cuz im ovulating and hormonal or what.... I need to vent... He turns 30 tomorrow... My mom just had back surgury and i already had a nice b day for him, went to a nice expensive dinner, went to the casino and i got him 400$ tosh.o tickets in nyc in two weeks and he was supposed to come w me to my moms tonight to help me w her cuz my stedad had to go to his daughters and she needs help gojng to the bathroom and all..and ever since 11 am this morning hes been playing this huge 30 b day she bang tonight at the casino with all his buddies...i just feel so angry and upset at the same time.. Hes never done anything like this to me before... I just want to scream..and its my ovulation time and i dont even want to dtd with him im so livid... Grrrrrrrrrrr i can scream!

Yeah, I guess theres not much you can do about it besides let him know how much it hurt you The other night I made my DB dinner and was planning on surprising him when he got home. He then called to tell me he was picking up an extra shift at work. Although he had no idea what I had planned, it still bummed me out

 

[kmeoi]

Hi ladies,

Can I join too please? I'm so desperate to get a bfp it's driving me crazy, but I'm only on cd 20 so got a little while to wait yet before testing.

When is everyone going to test??

Lots of baby dust to you all xx

 

[Lilliana]

I have only been trying since last july, but it feels like an eternity when 5 of my friends are prego and one just had twins (started trying when I did)!!!

Awe man i know that feeling! Im having an awful night.. Hubby and i just got into a major verbal fight and we barely argue.... I dont know if its cuz im ovulating and hormonal or what.... I need to vent... He turns 30 tomorrow... My mom just had back surgury and i already had a nice b day for him, went to a nice expensive dinner, went to the casino and i got him 400$ tosh.o tickets in nyc in two weeks and he was supposed to come w me to my moms tonight to help me w her cuz my stedad had to go to his daughters and she needs help gojng to the bathroom and all..and ever since 11 am this morning hes been playing this huge 30 b day she bang tonight at the casino with all his buddies...i just feel so angry and upset at the same time.. Hes never done anything like this to me before... I just want to scream..and its my ovulation time and i dont even want to dtd with him im so livid... Grrrrrrrrrrr i can scream!

one word...Men!

 

[wantingmybfp]

I have read all over the Internet and on here that it has a negative affect on fertility in rats not humans. In humans its supposed to a natural alternate to clomid.

 

[babybambi2011]

That makes me feel so much betttter! Your the first person ive come across with t1d on this site! Did you make it to at least 38 weeks?

lily was born at 36weeks. i was admitted as at my 36 week scan she was estimated to be 8lb 2oz, so they decided to admit me on thursday, and give me steroids for her lungs and induce me on monday..... well that didnt quite happen. i was on an insuling pump while the steriods were admited for 24 hours and i made it 18 hours then my blood sugars started to rise and i started going into a DKA, so they decided to take me to theater and have a c section. not what i wanted, but she was 7lb 12oz, and perfectly healthy!! the only problem i had was breatfeeding. as she was still technically 36weeks she hadnt quite got the technique for the boob. i kept trying but after 4 weeks of me crying and lily crying.... i decided to just give up and go on formula.

things didnt go the way i planned, but i have a beautiful girl and i wouldnt change that for the world! and im proud of myself for being able to cope with a new born baby after my very first surgery.

 

[mrswemyss]

This cbfm is driving me nuts. It's easy to use but not to set up... I have to test at night bc I can't figure out how to reset time... Anyone else using it?!

 

[wantingmybfp]

I have type 2 diabetes! Just thought id share Lol I have the cbfm sticks. That show you a smily when you have an lh surge. Although with my pcos I'm not sure its accurate. So I'm temping too. Anyone else?

 

[sugarpi24]

I have type 2 diabetes! Just thought id share Lol I have the cbfm sticks. That show you a smily when you have an lh surge. Although with my pcos I'm not sure its accurate. So I'm temping too. Anyone else?

i use those also(smileys)...i started temping but i stopped due to fertility friend and my temps being all messed up. plus it just stressed me out...but a lot of ppl on this site temp and love it....good luck!

 

[Nikkilewis14]

I just want to thank you all for the kind words! I got home and he didnt end up going out because he knew how upset i was... We made up and well...dtd today lol, but im like bleeding slightly which i heard is normal with ovulation... I guess i was never in tune with noticing the blood before hmmmm... It stopped and was really light but still noticeable...hoping this moths it!

 

[Nikkilewis14]

That makes me feel so much betttter! Your the first person ive come across with t1d on this site! Did you make it to at least 38 weeks?

lily was born at 36weeks. i was admitted as at my 36 week scan she was estimated to be 8lb 2oz, so they decided to admit me on thursday, and give me steroids for her lungs and induce me on monday..... well that didnt quite happen. i was on an insuling pump while the steriods were admited for 24 hours and i made it 18 hours then my blood sugars started to rise and i started going into a DKA, so they decided to take me to theater and have a c section. not what i wanted, but she was 7lb 12oz, and perfectly healthy!! the only problem i had was breatfeeding. as she was still technically 36weeks she hadnt quite got the technique for the boob. i kept trying but after 4 weeks of me crying and lily crying.... i decided to just give up and go on formula.

things didnt go the way i planned, but i have a beautiful girl and i wouldnt change that for the world! and im proud of myself for being able to cope with a new born baby after my very first surgery.

Well thats great! Shes super adorable good to know its still possible even if i cant have a baby naturally as long as their healthy!

 

[rmsh1]

This is my second cycle temping. It works well for me, shows a clear pattern. I also use OPKs, to let me know exactly when I will O, but if I am honest, my cm does tell me alot about when I will O. I trust my cm more than the OPKs, given they did not really give me a clear positive last cycle, but my temps show I defnitely O'd

 

[shradha]

Hello frdz.....I m 29 yrs old from India. I have been married 4 the past 4 years..I have TTC from the past 2 months now......I always thought that becoming pregnant is the most easiest thing on earth.....but I was wrong.....after reading so many exp......I feel so dispt......Do we ve 2 wait 4 so long????? Today I took an ovulation test kit(homecheck) n found 2 pink lines......... Now I m confused coz the lines were not dark..........they were light pink........