No worries- we usually bd every other day starting around cd6 as I O pretty early, around cd12, and we keep on it for as long as we can. I try not to pressure DH, and some months I feel like we have fallen a little short with timing as he was working a lot of overtime, and was just pretty exhausted. So like I said this month just going to try to relax, not put any pressure on it, and see what happens. thanks for getting me. Its nice to know there are ladies that will just listen, not judge, and be there for you on this site.