I want a Christmas BFP...anyone else?

[GI_Jane]

Finally started af after 8 weeks since my mc. Now with the hope of getting back to normal, I told my dh how lovely it would be to have a bfp by the time Xmas rolls around and he has agreed.

With a long cycle and it possibly being messed up after the mc I think that's just one o to try and I don't know when that'll be! Better get jiggy!

Would anyone else like a Christmas bfp?

 

[mlm115]

I would! It has been 3 weeks since my d&c after a mmc, and still got a bfp a couple days ago. Waiting for af to come so we can start TTC again! Hoping its only a few more weeks.

 

[cozmos]

id love one , would be the best pressie ever!!!, im 3 weeks tomoro from second dnc, a sticky bub would be very welcome come xmas. fx for us x

 

[bobster]

Me 4! I really really want a Christmas bfp. My expected due date was Feb so would have been very pregnant by Christmas Hurry up af!!!!

Any plans of how to get bfp next cycle? I may try SMEP and soy isflavones

 

[Kkb111211]

I'm definitely with you ladies! This is our 2nd cycle TTC after our mc in May. I also have rather long cycles. Would absolutely love a BFP by Christmas!

 

[cozmos]

well i was only after a dnc and started taking agnus castus which has been great at balancing my hormones out, apparently its great at shortening cycles etc...my doc was not happy tho but i dont care because i knew it took 4 months las time to be normal again and though ivnot had af yet im not bein a hormonal wreck!!! im in no hurry right now for a bfp but it would be welcome too, i think i go slightly off the rails after a miscarriage prob not good but it makes me feel better so i prob will be better off waiting till the new year. fx for yous tho ladies x

 

[bobster]

well i was only after a dnc and started taking agnus castus which has been great at balancing my hormones out, apparently its great at shortening cycles etc...my doc was not happy tho but i dont care because i knew it took 4 months las time to be normal again and though ivnot had af yet im not bein a hormonal wreck!!! im in no hurry right now for a bfp but it would be welcome too, i think i go slightly off the rails after a miscarriage prob not good but it makes me feel better so i prob will be better off waiting till the new year. fx for yous tho ladies x

I think its really good you have this attitude, I wish I were the same. I went a bit off the rails after mine too- hormone crazy! I am too impatient though. You never know now you feel less pressured it might come sooner than new yrs. good luck hun

 

[cozmos]

bobster my due date is the 15th nov for my twins it wrecks me!!! my rainbow was due 14th may so i know where ur coming from...be nice if u could forget the whole dating thing...its funny how i forget daft dates and wat i did yesterday or sometimes 5 mins ago lol but not those all important due dates x

 

[bobster]

Must have been so sad to lose twin

I hope we have our stickies soon. I always forget what I've done yesterday on a daily basis. I wish we could erase our memories of all the painful things too

 

[Topanga053]

I'm with you ladies too! I'm on CD2 and this is my 2nd cycle since my MC in August, although we TTC before AF (and obviously failed). A Christmas BFP would mean so much to me!!!! What a fantastic present after all of this heartbreak!!

**babydust***

 

[emergRN]

Count me in for a Xmas bfp!!! That would be a dream come true , but as of right now, I'm still waiting for AF to come >_<

 

[mackjess]

Me me me!

BFPs all around please!

 

[bobster]

Count me in for a Xmas bfp!!! That would be a dream come true , but as of right now, I'm still waiting for AF to come >_<

second that!

 

[cozmos]

im waiting for my first af too i wish it would hurry up!!!! good luck ladies i hope yous all get ur jingle babies x

 

[cir1409]

Hi

I would just be so happy to get a bfp for xmas. Just thinking about it makes me xcited. Though i was hoping to have it before now to be 12 weeks at xmas and tell everyb. ody. But devestatingly af arrives month after month. Have been ttc for 11 months now after mc on 11/12/11. like everyone else thought it would happen straight away but here i am now... Hve app with dr thurs to get tests done so will see how that goes.

Baby dust to all x

 

[GI_Jane]

Hey ladies,
Thanks for joining me on my wish for a Christmas bfp.

How are we all feeling? Some of you were waiting for af, has this come yet?
I waited 8 weeks for mine and as much as i willed it to come (or hoped i was pregnant again), it's delay in coming did allow me time to get my emotions a bit more stable about the loss. So now af is over and done with I'm feeling more normal and really ready to do this

Where are the rest of you in your cycles? I'm at CD 8 and keeping a look out for the Ewcm...

Cosmos I'm taking Angus castus too, my cycles are usually about 40 days long and like you hoped it would help to balance my hormones after the mc.

Bobster, did you start the SMEP? Or soy? From another post on here the SMEP ladies look to be having great success. I'm not sure I could committ to that regimen especially with a 40 day long cycle....

So from today, there are 7 weeks until Christamas eve!....good luck ladies, how wonderful would it be to wrap up a positive HPT and stick it under the tree....it would probably have to be a digital one though for DH just so he got the picture with no mistake!

Keep me posted. x

 

[MrsDavo]

Hey ladies,
Thanks for joining me on my wish for a Christmas bfp.

How are we all feeling? Some of you were waiting for af, has this come yet?
I waited 8 weeks for mine and as much as i willed it to come (or hoped i was pregnant again), it's delay in coming did allow me time to get my emotions a bit more stable about the loss. So now af is over and done with I'm feeling more normal and really ready to do this

Where are the rest of you in your cycles? I'm at CD 8 and keeping a look out for the Ewcm...

Cosmos I'm taking Angus castus too, my cycles are usually about 40 days long and like you hoped it would help to balance my hormones after the mc.

Bobster, did you start the SMEP? Or soy? From another post on here the SMEP ladies look to be having great success. I'm not sure I could committ to that regimen especially with a 40 day long cycle....

So from today, there are 7 weeks until Christamas eve!....good luck ladies, how wonderful would it be to wrap up a positive HPT and stick it under the tree....it would probably have to be a digital one though for DH just so he got the picture with no mistake!

Keep me posted. x

Hey hun!

I would love to have a BFP by Xmas! I miscarried at 11 weeks in April and had to have a DnC.

I tried doing the SMEP this month ( 2nd month of charting ) But we started it thinking I would O on the same day as last month and it hasn't happened yet. We are a bit tired lol.

Ive had a positive OPK on CD 14 and CD 16, and a small amount of EWCM yesterday. I really hope my temp goes up soon!

Also been using preseed for the first time this month, started using it on CD 12.

It would make this Christmas one of the best ever if I could have a BFP by then, as I should have had a lovely baby this year and I don't. Just passed my due date which was hard, thinking what the day/weeks should have been like, ( someone on my street just had a girl last week too! ) thinking how I should be holding my little baby now.

Anyway - I would just like my body to sort itself out! Going for a Day 21 blood test on Wednesday - wonder if I will O by then?? x

 

[Topanga053]

Hey ladies!

DH and I tried SMEP last month with no success. I was originally going to do it again this month, but I think all of the charting and OPKs actually makes it harder on my psychologically. DH agrees, so I think we're just going to be a little more laid back about it. I really want my BFP, but I also want to be able to focus on things in my life besides pregnancy! I've been getting a little obsessive and that's made healing from the loss even harder!

So, hopefully we can get a BFP for December, but with less stress!

 

[mlm115]

Still waiting for first af, so annoying!! Cozmos, how long have you been waiting??

 

[GI_Jane]

MrsDavo,
Do you think you will continue with the SMEP for the rest of your cycle? Sounds tempting if you are getting Ewcm.
Sorry to hear you just passed your due date, I don't know how that feels yet, mine is not until April 2013 but I took it quite hard with someone leaving work to go on maternity leave and all the fuss people made for her and I should of been 12 weeks that day and I could imagine me with a scan picture and telling people. Sorry, I'm probably not helping, but your not on your own.x

I don't know much about the 21 day blood test, what does that show?