thats great news hun i do hope it isnt long til you get your bfp hunni!!!! good luck bring on those august babies
so just an update from me with how my app went at the pre-pregnancy unit i have c+p from another post as i cant be bothered to write it all out again
had my app at the pre-pregnancy unit today and i honestly dont know why i bothered!
sat waiting with dd2 for over half an hour thank god they had a childrens play area otherwise she would have got bored quickly.
anyways i was eventually seen the dr went through my history and read through my notes and told me he didnt know why i was referred there as all the tests they would do have already been done by my consultant as part of my rcm investigations and they usually only see women with problems in the pre-pregnancy unit and as all my tests came back normal i dont need to be there.
he was such an arrogant twat too!!! i honestly felt like punching him. he started going on about statistics and how every 1 in 6 pregnancies end in m/c and that i could fall pg 10 times and expect to m/c at some point. what a reassuring man eh?!
he then went on to saying its better that we dont know why we have lost 3 babies and that it was just down to bad luck. now imo i think its better to have a diagnosis so we could hopefully treat it and if not we would at least know the risks of another m/c happening. that is much better then being where i am now scared sh!tless that i will lose another because we dont know what caused us to lose the last 3 babies.
what a wasted trip! so now i just have to plod along and hope i get my bfp soon.
so frustrated with them i thought they might offer to help me with getting my cycle back on track but he didnt seem to concerned about them. fingers crossed i get my bfp so i dont have to put up with anymore shit from my pathetic body!
dan-o and tasha hope you are both well. x