bebedreamr
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- May 10, 2011
- Messages
- 837
- Reaction score
- 0
My OH and I have been together almost 3 years, and we are expecting DD 1 in February. I really want to be married, or engaged or something, but I don't think it's happening. Especially since we have had a small hiccup, and OH was laid off briefly but has thankfully found a fabulous job that he starts this week. Over the next year we will be short on money because I will be off work, and then when I do decide to go back to work we will have to worry about daycare!
My OH always tells me he is with me for forever, we truly love eachother and I know marriage doesn't make the relationship. I just really want that day with him, to celebrate our love and being a family together and to make that promise to one another. I guess I am just sad that I will have to wait so long for it Even if we were engaged for a few years I would be happy! I just want us to be more than "this is my boyfriend/girlfriend", especially with having a DD together. Does this make sense? lol
My OH always tells me he is with me for forever, we truly love eachother and I know marriage doesn't make the relationship. I just really want that day with him, to celebrate our love and being a family together and to make that promise to one another. I guess I am just sad that I will have to wait so long for it Even if we were engaged for a few years I would be happy! I just want us to be more than "this is my boyfriend/girlfriend", especially with having a DD together. Does this make sense? lol