meli1981
D, me, and our crazy 3!
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Right I'm probably going to be an exception here, so here it goes.
Neither of my children can sit on my lap for very long. My oldest never has, she gets upset really easily so I would need that space. You'd be sitting next to a screaming child who'd throw up in the end. (she has autism too)
I'm afraid I wouldnt have given up the seat in my shoes. The lady may have had a reason.
Or she may have just been a cow , I dunno, but its good to be open minded.
but is it fair to "hold" a chair not being used, just in case you need it, when the place is packed and there are people standing all around? i just thought it was common courtsey! this lady was clearly being rude, especially since her lo seemed perfectly happy in her lap
Yeah that might seem fine but what of the kid gets suddenly fed up? It goes without saying I'd give up a seat for a pregnant lady , but I wouldn't give up my child's and I would actually give a child my seat if I was pregnant.
Yeah she could have been being rude and its only fair to think that way in that case but disabilities and difficulties can be unseen, and what may look "ok" to you might not be. I'm only saying that because I've been judged in many situations, for example, my child being in the pushchair space on the bus and a mother with a smaller baby thinks she's more entitled. Yep, for all she knew I was a lazy mare not wanting to take my kid out the buggy, when in fact I had my reasons.
Totally not having a go, but people are quick to judge
if the child gets fed up they i would take the child out of the situation, not allow he/she to continue in its own seat. im not talking about kids with disabilities, but this child was no more than two, and perfectly happy in moms lap