Illegal drugs - worse than legal ones?

[redpoppy]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

That's lovely!

I've only left my LO about three times with OH. Once or twice to get small chores done but biggest deal being for five hours when she was 8 months. It was supposed to be longer but I RAN home to make it before bedtime. People think I'm weird but I don't think so.

 

[aob1013]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

That's lovely!

I've only left my LO about three times with OH. Once or twice to get small chores done but biggest deal being for five hours when she was 8 months. It was supposed to be longer but I RAN home to make it before bedtime. People think I'm weird but I don't think so.

Definately not weird hun! I think i would feel incomplete, like something was missing?!

 

[Eve]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

 

[Eve]

Mum came down to watch the kids and OH and I were going to have a date night and well we stayed in and had pizza I will do my realizing in a little while... no harm there right? LOL

 

[aob1013]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

lol... Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

That's lovely!

I've only left my LO about three times with OH. Once or twice to get small chores done but biggest deal being for five hours when she was 8 months. It was supposed to be longer but I RAN home to make it before bedtime. People think I'm weird but I don't think so.

Definately not weird hun! I think i would feel incomplete, like something was missing?!

I was like that and it was HORRIBLE when my son started school now I wish we did ease it in gently as I was not prepared to be apart and nor was he

 

[aob1013]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

That's lovely!

I've only left my LO about three times with OH. Once or twice to get small chores done but biggest deal being for five hours when she was 8 months. It was supposed to be longer but I RAN home to make it before bedtime. People think I'm weird but I don't think so.

Definately not weird hun! I think i would feel incomplete, like something was missing?!

I was like that and it was HORRIBLE when my son started school now I wish we did ease it in gently as I was not prepared to be apart and nor was he

Definately i agree, not being apart in 4 years is unhealthy. Once he is around a year old OH and I are planning a trip to New York, hopefully next November for a week so we'll have our first taste of freedom then, eee!

 

[Eve]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

Sorry to hear about your first... It's one of the worst things, to lose a child... I lost my second in 2008 and I think that's why I'm so attached to Kayleigh. I've been slowly leaving, like I said a few hours at a time, so it's not as hard on her when I need to go for any length of time. That is why I was so determind to breastfeed etc... because I didn't get the chance with Kaleb... He was so gorgeous... a true angel

 

[aob1013]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

Sorry to hear about your first... It's one of the worst things, to lose a child... I lost my second in 2008 and I think that's why I'm so attached to Kayleigh. I've been slowly leaving, like I said a few hours at a time, so it's not as hard on her when I need to go for any length of time. That is why I was so determind to breastfeed etc... because I didn't get the chance with Kaleb... He was so gorgeous... a true angel

I truly understand how you feel, i just cannot bear to talk about what happened to us yet .. it's still too raw

It definately explains why we are both very attached. I would never forgive myself if something happened to Leni and I wasn't there. I think that's half the battle!

I hope you have found peace now though x

 

[Eve]

It took me a while to be able to speak about it with others but I've come to an understanding that I will never know why things happened the way they did, but Kaleb is at peace now, and I will get to hold him again someday. I will never get over things, the pain is always there, raw and open like a true wound, but I've become numb in a way I guess. I miss him dearly though... He would have been such a good big & little brother...

 

[Eve]

And yes, I think that has something to do with the attachement. I guess when you lose something so dear, you learn not to take things for granted. I have learned so much from my baby boy... words can't even begin to describe...

again so sorry for your loss...

 

[xbabybumpx]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

lol... Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

omg i had know idea. i dont think you've ever mentioned it before. im so sorry for your loss xx

 

[xbabybumpx]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

Sorry to hear about your first... It's one of the worst things, to lose a child... I lost my second in 2008 and I think that's why I'm so attached to Kayleigh. I've been slowly leaving, like I said a few hours at a time, so it's not as hard on her when I need to go for any length of time. That is why I was so determind to breastfeed etc... because I didn't get the chance with Kaleb... He was so gorgeous... a true angel

im so sorry for your loss. he is truely beautiful xx

 

[BlackBerry25]

In regards to people smoking at bus stops, people do smoke at bus stops here. I ran into my brother downtown on Sunday and he was walking around smoking a joint, no one notices or cares. It's not so noticeable when you are outside.

 

[aob1013]

I find it quite a shame that nobody notices or cares

 

[BlackBerry25]

Well I also walked by someone smoking a crack pipe, and no one cared about that either.

 

[xbabybumpx]

Well I also walked by someone smoking a crack pipe, and no one cared about that either.

that might be the way in canada but its not like that here,maybe in really rough parts of the uk it would be acceptable

 

[JASMAK]

Well I also walked by someone smoking a crack pipe, and no one cared about that either.

that might be the way in canada but its not like that here,maybe in really rough parts of the uk it would be acceptable

i live in canada....and it isn't like that here.

 

[xbabybumpx]

Well I also walked by someone smoking a crack pipe, and no one cared about that either.

that might be the way in canada but its not like that here,maybe in really rough parts of the uk it would be acceptable

i live in canada....and it isn't like that here.

according to blackberry it is lol

 

[Eve]

I have never left my son with anyone else to this date, and i don't intend to either. Only i can look after him in the way i want to.

Is this your first baby? We all tend to think that at first... but most realize sooner or later others will do fine Not saying leave them with people who do any harmful substances by no means but once you have raised one you tend to understand others are capable. It's not healthy to be with LO 24/7.. I say this yet I've only left LO 2 times with my mum, 2 hours each lol... My OH can do everything I do except feed from the boob... just as good as me he rocks the daddy job! I haven't met better yet. I would rather him over anyone but I want to spend the time with him lol

No my second, my first died.

There are plenty of people that are perfectly capable, my Mum, MIL, OH.

My OH is fantastic, just like yours offers to do everything over than feeding obviously. However, in the early days (LO is 8 weeks) i totally am not ready to leave him yet and absolutely love spending 24/7 with him, he's mean't to be with his Mummy. I don't get sick of him at all!

So yeah for now and in the near future i am totally not ready to let go of him .. especially after what happened to my first baby, i am a totally 100% attached Mummy

Sorry to hear about your first... It's one of the worst things, to lose a child... I lost my second in 2008 and I think that's why I'm so attached to Kayleigh. I've been slowly leaving, like I said a few hours at a time, so it's not as hard on her when I need to go for any length of time. That is why I was so determind to breastfeed etc... because I didn't get the chance with Kaleb... He was so gorgeous... a true angel

im so sorry for your loss. he is truely beautiful xx

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Thank you, he is my handsome little angel

In regards to people smoking at bus stops, people do smoke at bus stops here. I ran into my brother downtown on Sunday and he was walking around smoking a joint, no one notices or cares. It's not so noticeable when you are outside.

I'm trying to think and I can't recall seeing anyone smoking pot out and about, but I don't tend to look around to find out, so who knows I've smelled it a few times though.

Well I also walked by someone smoking a crack pipe, and no one cared about that either.

Oh wow! I don't care if ppl smoke pot or whatever, but crack,where people and children could walk by I don't like at all! I think I would have to say something, I wouldn't want my son seeing that crap, or daughter when she is older... I don't think it would go unnoticed where I live. Our town is full of pot heads and church goers. our town is the "drug capital" of the province, sadly... and we don't see people smoking it in town etc... thank goodness! We have respectful pot heads around here I don't know how our town has the two extremes going on though. We had a guy on Main street open up a small adult novelty shop and was driven out within a month!!!! Petitions went around, protests and the building was even attempted to be set on fire!!! Weird town I live in I tell ya, should be out of here next year, putting the house on the market