I'm upset now :-(

[stacie-leigh]

What a fecking Biaytch!
you cannot say that about a baby, evil cow!
sounds like she is just out to cause hell for you.
yes there has to be a compromise between both parties for welfare of child, but not for it to be completely ignored! how old is Madi? and has her mom even stopped to ask her what she wants? My daughter happily told everyone who would listen to her what she wanted. LOL she still does, lol.
secretly film Madi talking to you guys, show it to her mother too, rub her nasty nose in it!

Madi is 5 and whenever she does decide to come to our house her mum brings her to tears because she said at home she wasn't coming and she isn't allowed to change her mind. I feel so sorry for the girls x

 

[stacie-leigh]

If the contact centre hasn't been ordered by the court then she is really pushing her luck. Mark should refuse, absolutely and utterly, it is not a nice memory for the girls to hold more than anything else. I know it's easy for me to say. She is clearly deranged.

She is deranged. So why if we can see it can a judge not? Mark says he is going to refuse it because it is ridiculous.

There is no way that for the next 10 years I am sitting at home with our daughter on Christmas day morning explaining to her why her daddy, sisters and grandparents are in a centre opening presents but we cannot go. No way.

 

[Jojo-Mummy]

that woman needs help! How could she do that to her children? Why dont the courts ever aks the children what they want? x

 

[bekki_d18]

This women is such a bitch!!! SO sorry you have to put up with a crazy women like this. I would tell OH to stand his ground as she cannot refuse to bring mad to your house

 

[stacie-leigh]

that woman needs help! How could she do that to her children? Why dont the courts ever aks the children what they want? x

She doesn't deserve children. I know that most of the time Madi doesn't want to come, but what 5 year old would when her mum is promising to take her to McDonalds and swimming when she should be with us? And telling her off and reducing her to tears when she does come. It makes my blood boil just thinking about the things she says to the kids x

 

[majm1241]

Wow!! She sounds like My DH Mark's ex!! Only she got her 11 year old to hate me! I've been with her daddy since she was 2 and we have always got along until this last Summer when they visited and she went home and made up horrible lies about me & Jace all because she is not happy her daddy is having another girl!! There is so much more but this is not my rant!

 

[stacie-leigh]

This women is such a bitch!!! SO sorry you have to put up with a crazy women like this. I would tell OH to stand his ground as she cannot refuse to bring mad to your house

We meet at a contact centre and she tells Madi that she is buying her new things, taking her swimming etc so she doesn't come. Once she brought Madi's friend with her to the contact centre and because Madi wanted to come with us, her mum told her off for leaving her friend!!!!! The whole reason we were there is to pick the girls up!!!!

 

[stacie-leigh]

Wow!! She sounds like My DH Mark's ex!! Only she got her 11 year old to hate me! I've been with her daddy since she was 2 and we have always got along until this last Summer when they visited and she went home and made up horrible lies about me & Jace all because she is not happy her daddy is having another girl!! There is so much more but this is not my rant!

It is a nightmare isn't it I just hope she doesn't make the girls as mental as she is!

I hope you manage to get it sorted

 

[stacie-leigh]

Mark text get saying no, so she replied 'so she only gets her presents from you and your family if she comes to your house?' Well yes, what is so wrong with that! Idiot!

 

[minkymoo]

Mark text get saying no, so she replied 'so she only gets her presents from you and your family if she comes to your house?' Well yes, what is so wrong with that! Idiot!

Yes, like 'normal' families behave on Christmas Day. I know Mark is desperate to see the girls but I think it might work out in the long run if he calls her bluff now. If she realises she can't use the kids as weapons anymore she might just back off a little.

 

[stacie-leigh]

Mark text get saying no, so she replied 'so she only gets her presents from you and your family if she comes to your house?' Well yes, what is so wrong with that! Idiot!

Yes, like 'normal' families behave on Christmas Day. I know Mark is desperate to see the girls but I think it might work out in the long run if he calls her bluff now. If she realises she can't use the kids as weapons anymore she might just back off a little.

I'm just worried that Mark is going to give in to her like usual and this will be what all our Christmas days will be like for a very long time

 

[minkymoo]

That's why he really needs to stand his ground now, if she's gotten use to him being a pushover for want of a better word, she will never change.

 

[stacie-leigh]

That's why he really needs to stand his ground now, if she's gotten use to him being a pushover for want of a better word, she will never change.

I know that, but Mark is just desperate to see the girls regardless of what he has to do to acheive that. I wish she would just dissapear of the end of a cliff!

 

[minkymoo]

That's why he really needs to stand his ground now, if she's gotten use to him being a pushover for want of a better word, she will never change.

I know that, but Mark is just desperate to see the girls regardless of what he has to do to acheive that. I wish she would just dissapear of the end of a cliff!

BUT if he keeps doing whatever she wants she will only get worse. How long has she been playing this game? Has it got better over time? I'm guessing not.

 

[stacie-leigh]

I know, it's just a vicous circle. This has been going on for a year and half and hasn't got any better, worse if anything. At least last year Madi was still coming here. We thought the courts could help, but clearly not.

 

[minkymoo]

What was she like over custody etc before you were on the scene?

 

[stacie-leigh]

Before I was on the scene, Mark could see the girls anytime he wanted without a problem. The children have always been a burden to her so she was happy for Mark to look after them. All up until I came on the scene and she claims to be being a great mother by keeping the girls away from Mark.

 

[Angel_dust]

sounds like my OH's ex and her ridiculous ideas! honestly, if only they would realise that its not about world war 3, its about the kids.

As far as i was aware the courts are supposed to ask the children (with no input from either parent) what they want to do, who they want to see and work from there...I do know how hard it is though , my OH fought thorugh court for 3 years to even see his daughter unsupervised! and there was no reason why not, no violence or abuse etc.

I hope your OH can stand his ground as a contact centre is not the place for kids to want to be at christmas, and his ex is going to have to grow up and realise that you and the baby are part of his life and also part of his other kids lives, after all, they will be half siblings! not as easy as it sounds but I hope you can stay strong and she stops playing stupid control games.xxx

 

[blinkybaby]

Shocking behaviour from a grown woman! It makes me sick to see children being used as pawns in one crazy woman's game she has going that no one else wants to play. She's trying to control your partner too, he mustn't participate, or like you say, she will feel like she's got the upper hand and 'won' the game so to speak and it will just carry on and on.

Keep us updated hun! xx

 

[Ashtons mummy]

the women sound evil... she hasnt got the girls in mind at all shes just out to see how much trouble she can cause between u and mark its such a shame... i hope she is just calling his bluff x x