mum22ttc#3
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Im taking everything you ladies are saying on board, & totally appreciate the honesty.
My only comment would be that it doesnt matter how many times i tell him his practical jokes annoy the hell outta me, & sometimes im just not in the mood for them, or like last weekend, he had me.in.tears because he dunked.my face in the dirty washing up water because he thought it would be funny, i know for a fact he doesnt hesitate to do them time & time again!! I rarely get my own back because hes bigger & stronger than me, & i would struggle to do the things he does to me, to him. I guess i feel he just cant take it like he gives it out.
On the surface, I agree with the PP that the second time was too much, but we don't know the whole story. After reading this, I think you are right, he seems to think he can give it all he wants but he can't take it.
This don't give it if you can't take it back. I would be tempted to go in to the bedroom and tell him so myself. Not in a nasty way but in a 'now you understand what you put me through' kinda discussion way. And if he is still huffy I'd drink the beer you'd bought him (just because I think dunking someone's head in dirty dish water is a billion times worse than a photo of beer).
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I totally think it is him over reacting. I actually don't think it matters how many times you sent it, to be that pissed off about it IMO is a total over reaction
I understand that it is annoying when your the one at work but at the end of the day that's life. Are you not meant to tell him about your day either with LO just incase he might not like it or be jealous?