Is it just me or would you be angry? OH rant! POintless really but need to vent

[Adela Quested]

how can u not be mad ...my hubby just went out to meet up with his friends and is gonna stay untill 11:30pm and im mad !! didnt show it but im mad !!! why is everything always so easy for them and never for us ?...
since ive had my little girl i havent gone out once and even if i did he wouldnt stay home ... what can i say ..cant with them cant without

You should tell him how you feel - otherwise he will just assume you're ok with it! (Not suggesting that's ok, but you know how men are! )

 

[_Vicky_]

omg I would go mental I cant even put into words how angry I would be!!

 

[NG09]

I'd flip my wig for sure!!!! Make him suffer!!!! lol

 

[hivechild]

Uh, yeah. I'd be pissed, too! You've every right to be angry.

It's funny because I didn't close the door to our bedroom properly when I got up this morning with Ronan and the dog. The dog had his breakfast, trotted upstairs and promptly barged into the bedroom, jumped on the bed and woke my hubby up.

I was apologetic (because I was going to let him have a lie in), until I asked him what time he came to bed after playing a video game last night because I'd already fallen asleep. When he said 2ish, I just laughed and said 'serves you right, then!' In his defense, he did get up and stay up, and was very helpful and spent plenty of time with the monkey for the rest of the day!

 

[Buffy71]

To the OP - did he give you a satisfactory explanation and beg forgiveness when he finally dragged his sorry butt out of bed?

 

[EMYJC]

Thanks everyone,

Sorry not had chance to come on here til now. He hasnt really been apologetic no. He went out as one of his employees has left him so it was a 'leaving do'. I was told they were going local though and he'd be back as early as poss!

He says he was in Venus nightclub in Mcr which I hate. It stays open til 6 apparently. His excuse is he missed the bus and was waiting ages for a taxi! When he came in he tried getting in bed with me and I told him to p*ss off to the loft. I didnt speak to him all yesterday but made him bath lucas, feed him and put him to bed. Not that I should have to ask.

I said he is babysitting this weekend as I am off out with the girls and he pulled his face. It is so wrong that he thinks his life doesnt have to change one little bit whereas I never get chance to have a bath, dye my hair without risk of being disturbed. I havent been out with the girls since Feb and then I drove and only stayed out 2 hours! I dont want to go mad partying, its not me and I dont see why a man his age with a young baby thinks its ok to.


Fair enough hes not out every weekend, rarely does go out, but to me its still so out of order to be out til that time when you have a baby at home!

I have said if he ever gets in past 2am in the future we are out of here! There's no excuse for that time. He cant have the best of both worlds. He's acting single doing what he did in my opinion.

 

[Noodles]

I totally agree with you hun. Enjoy your weekend!

 

[EMYJC]

Thanks hun. How's work? I'm hopin to go back nov one day a week using holidays til jan. Need the money! X

 

[pheobe]

He must be barking to have spent the night in that shit hole instead of cuddled up with you and little one! Hope he is buying you a big pressie to make up for it
xxx

 

[EMYJC]

No chance of that! My parents house is empty for 12 days might go there and let him fend for himself and see what it's like without me and his little man! See if
It's worth another night like that again! I said that place is just to ogle scantily clad girls for man his age. Dented his ego a bit saying he's past it

 

[pheobe]

LOL bruise the ego - I like our style, my hubby has struggled with the age thing in the past...it's like 'mate your 31 you can't perv on rosie webster...she's 11' lol

escaping to your mum's sounds like a plan if it's upset you so much he should understand, and if all else fails I could kidnap you for the night and go an ogle some hot men in Mcr
xxx

 

[EMYJC]

Ha well my other half is 41 nearly 42 so imagine how much I dented his ESP when he ogled pixie Lott! Lol. Where in mcr are you? X

 

[Noodles]

Thanks hun. How's work? I'm hopin to go back nov one day a week using holidays til jan. Need the money! X

I'm just taking each day as it comes. I overheard my bosses talking about reducing my hours and they said that they would see about changing them in a month.

 

[pheobe]

Ha well my other half is 41 nearly 42 so imagine how much I dented his ESP when he ogled pixie Lott! Lol. Where in mcr are you? X

Ah pixie syndrome my OH suffers from this also, and holly willabooby syndrome. He also gets a type of memory loss whenever megan fox is mentioned or appears on the TV. He sometimes gets a twitch in his eye when Eva Mendes is on the box; DOG lol

Im in stretford hun whereabouts are you??

x

 

[EMYJC]

Well there's a lot more to it than all this, but this was just another thing that has brought everything to a head. Tuesday night OH told me to f off and this time he meant it so me and Lucas are currently at my parents while they are on holiday

 

[lilyd]

Really sorry there wasn't a better outcome for you. Hope you are coping ok? x

 

[kayleigh&bump]

oh hun I hope your bearing up ok? Im sorry to say it, but it sounds like you and Lucas are so much better off without him. Keep strong and do whats right for you a little man xxx

 

[Adela Quested]

I just read your latest update ... aargh that made me so angry! Enormous

All I can say is:

HIS LOSS​

What a fool. I am so sorry.

 

[emmad339]

I would have been absolutely fuming - my OH was out until 4am back at the beginning of the year and I went mental with him - needless to say he hasn't done it again. I'm sorry to hear that your situation has gotten worse and that you are now at your parents. I really hope you can get things sorted soon and that he realises what an arse he's being

 

[hivechild]

Sorry to hear things aren't going well at the moment. I hope they improve.