i am going to have a massive nag now lol. today me my oh and son were meant to be going swimming as my oh works 6 days a weeks and never spends anytime with us anymore! Anyway he got a call this morning saying his mate is outside and that he needs a hand putting a light up and instead of sayin he can't because we are meant to be going out he was like yeah be right out. i asked what about swimming and he said he will do it next week! So i had a big go at him, when he says he will do it next week it actually means he won't, something else will come up Do you think i am being unfair about having a go at him? He never sees us and the one time he was meant to be going out he blows us off for a mate who needs a frikking light!!!