Haha, I just knew because my OB told me she was going to stitch me up. Annnddddd... after she had been down there for like 30 minutes I was like "um.... You've been down there a while. Is it really that bad?" And of course she told me no.
But then she was down there at least 15-20 more minutes. And when I went in for my 6 week check up she said a lot of my stitches were still there and that nothing could go up there for 3 more weeks. As though I was going to let anything go near there for at least that long!
That thing was the absolute worst part of the whole experience for me. Obviously I'm doing it again anyway, but I really hope that part isn't quite as bad. Doc prescribed a BUNCH of percocet. But I couldn't take it because I was breastfeeding.
I took so many 800mg prescription ibuprofen tablets that my stomach got really jacked up after a few days. So then I just went without pain meds at all. I just dread the same thing happening. I know it could've been worse but out of all the people I know who have given birth, I seem to have had a harder time with my tear than the vast majority (or... all of them). So I don't know if I'm just that big of a wimp or if mine was more severe or at a weird angle or what. But, I still have pain from it today. My friend told me I made her very happy she had to have a c-section.
Again, I don't think that should freak anyone here out because like I said, I seem to have had more trouble than most. I know it's because she came out so insanely fast. She also had/has a big fat head.
I may ask for more coaching during the pushing part this time if I get another epidural (haha, listen to me -- "if"
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