linz143
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Wishin - Dang it! Why do you have to test on the weekend I'll be camping?! Ack!
Nats - It can be possible to ovulate that early but it is highly unlikely. I have gotten twinges before that early, but I think of it more as the follicle growing and not the actual release of the egg. Keep BDing till the time you normally ovulate just to be sure. Also, every other night is just as good as every night. I asked my OB once how often we should BD and she said once every few days would be fine.
Giraffes - Not really sure how she's coping. I just see her facebook posts about how she's letting go or getting ready to be a single parent all over again. DH kind of went off on her in one post. The background here is that he is adopted and she is a full blood sibling. Basically his birth mother got pregnant with him at 15, delivered at 16 and gave him up for adoption. Then 2 years later she got pregnant again with the same father, and then went on to have 2 more kids before the husband left her. So DH has 3 full blood siblings, and because it was an open adoption they all know each other. So DH is very, very sensitive to people who just have kids without thinking about it or even being in stable relationships before hand. His sister had only been with the guy 6 months before she got pregnant and BOTH of them already have kids from other relationships. So DH basically told her that acting irresponsible and not bothering to use protection and now them splitting up that the kid will be the one who pays for it and that she can't just keep going around having kids with someone just because she is in love with them for a few months.
Regardless of whether or not he was right to say it, I imagine it would give you a bit of a complex and a harsh look at people who don't plan for kids smartly if you were given up for adoption while your 3 younger siblings were kept.
Nats - It can be possible to ovulate that early but it is highly unlikely. I have gotten twinges before that early, but I think of it more as the follicle growing and not the actual release of the egg. Keep BDing till the time you normally ovulate just to be sure. Also, every other night is just as good as every night. I asked my OB once how often we should BD and she said once every few days would be fine.
Giraffes - Not really sure how she's coping. I just see her facebook posts about how she's letting go or getting ready to be a single parent all over again. DH kind of went off on her in one post. The background here is that he is adopted and she is a full blood sibling. Basically his birth mother got pregnant with him at 15, delivered at 16 and gave him up for adoption. Then 2 years later she got pregnant again with the same father, and then went on to have 2 more kids before the husband left her. So DH has 3 full blood siblings, and because it was an open adoption they all know each other. So DH is very, very sensitive to people who just have kids without thinking about it or even being in stable relationships before hand. His sister had only been with the guy 6 months before she got pregnant and BOTH of them already have kids from other relationships. So DH basically told her that acting irresponsible and not bothering to use protection and now them splitting up that the kid will be the one who pays for it and that she can't just keep going around having kids with someone just because she is in love with them for a few months.
Regardless of whether or not he was right to say it, I imagine it would give you a bit of a complex and a harsh look at people who don't plan for kids smartly if you were given up for adoption while your 3 younger siblings were kept.
been back to dentist today and I need more work done but I have a severe phobia of dentist's so I have to be sedated! Now they can't do sedation if I'm pregnant and my appointment is not till 1st August! 
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