Fern, I'm so happy that they got 9 eggs! I hope they all fertilise and you get a great transfer on Wednesday. Enjoy your junkfood... DH and I have been on a diet for about 6 weeks and I'm craving crisps and chips and all kinds of yummy things. I can't wait to treat myself after retrieval. Mine will be under GA, so I reckon I'll be allowed a good scoff after that! I can't wait to hear your updates. All kind of good wishes coming your way from me
You asked about the costs...
At SPIRE/BCRM in Bristol, UK, IVF is £3,210 and ICSI is £4,280, both excluding meds. I'm paying an extra £350 to do it at SPIRE with Mr Akande (he's done all my previous treatment and knows all my endometrial issues) and £75 for the HFEA licence.
Due to my polycystic ovaries and my AMH of 78.9 (yes, I know, off the charts), I'll need minimal meds, estimated at £1,000 up to max of £1,500. All told, I'm expecting between £5-£6k (R110,000-130,000 or $7,000-8,500 excluding storage).
I'm hoping for a few frosties but I don't yet know the storage price. If this fresh cycle fails, each FET is £990 (excluding meds). If it works, I'll save them for my next baby - the idea of twins who are different ages is really amazing to me!
I'm really lucky that my parents are helping us out. We will pay them back, but the time taken to save this kind of money would put me in my 40s before we could start and I've been trying long enough now. I turn 39 in 6 days and I really want to give birth before I turn 40!
I can't remember if I told you already, but we were not granted CCG funding as I had a very early chemical pregnancy (natural mc at 5w+0) last August and, in my excitement stupidly had it confirmed by blood test the day of my bfp. That hcg of 47 is on my records and I'm deemed sub-fertile not infertile, so will never be allowed NHS funded IVF. It was hard to read, but there's nothing I can do about it and I've faced harder road bumps on this journey than some clipboard-toting civil servant!