IVF - For those in January?? (Nov. is long gone!)

[Maddie30]

I am so so sorry for your lost. May god give you the strength to continue. Hope they do release you and make this a bit easier for you xxx

 

[sunshine314]

Iluvbabies - I am so very very sorry I can't imagine how heartbroken you are and must feel completely gutted. I know no words can help but just know that all of us B&B girls are praying and thinking of you. Sending lots of hugs your way. xxxxx

 

[sarahincanada]

Posting for the last time. Baby is gone. I just want to die of this pain. Good luck ladies..

oh no, Im so so sorry words cannot express how sad I feel for you. I hope you get the strength to get through this, and that you have a good support system

 

[Dis3tnd]

ILuv, I am in complete shock for you. I can't believe this has happened after you have had previous good scans. Completely at a loss of words.... Im so sorry.

 

[Springy]

ILuvBabies - there are no words that I can say to you right now to make the pain go away.

 

[MoBaby]

ILuvBabeies: How are you today My heart is hurting for you soooo much

AFM: I just took a HPT (first since my mmc) b/c I am curious as to if I am going to have AF soon.. Tomorrow is 4 wks post and the HPT is still freaking faintly positive! I am sooooo annoyed I could CRY right now I just want AF to come so I can get on and move on. This is soooo freaking frustrating!!! UGH! I just dont understand how the levels can be hanging around for so long. The baby was just 6w1d and my hcg levels were on the low side. I would have imagined they would have been down in 2 weeks or so. I have an appt on Monday with RE and he wanted AF to have come before I saw him (thats the appt they gave me) but doesnt look like AF is coming for a couple weeks now I am not going to cancel because I want to get my results and I want to discuss this summer.

 

[sarahincanada]

oh mobaby what kind of test is it and how faint is it? I cant help but hope that this is new hcg....have you been trying. if its not then its cruel to hang around so long when you want to move on. big

 

[MoBaby]

Its the pink wondfos that I trust because I have never had an evap or false line......It is very cruel for my body to not just get rid of HCG! I have a pic. It cant be real, right? I mean DH has barely any sperm. I want it to be new HCG... If still + monday I am getting a beta level at my RE.
OH we BD on March 4th (16 days after d/c) which would have been OV day if I never had been pg then BD march 10th. This was unplanned; just happened because it had been so long! LOL (ok tmi). But I have not been doing any opk testing since last summer when we found out DH issue because I was like whats the point.

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[sarahincanada]

Ive seen a lot of people get bfps on here after mc's even without a period inbetween but I dont want to get your hopes up, like you says its a bit unlikely with the sperm. I suppose the only way to tell is if the line gets darker?
do you know what your hcg was at the time of the mc? when I google it some people do say up to 4-6 weeks but others say less especially if you had surgery to remove. oh mobaby I would do anything for this to be a real bfp

 

[MoBaby]

My RE doesnt check HCG after d/c... I dont think it was checked at time of surgery so I have no clue what it could have been I think its still left over. Real BFP would be sooooo unlikely to happen. I just hope AF comes soon, probably at least 2 more weeks now since hpt still + so I still have hcg lingering around.... Frustrating!!

 

[sarahincanada]

My RE doesnt check HCG after d/c... I dont think it was checked at time of surgery so I have no clue what it could have been I think its still left over. Real BFP would be sooooo unlikely to happen. I just hope AF comes soon, probably at least 2 more weeks now since hpt still + so I still have hcg lingering around.... Frustrating!!

its very frustrating and I hope to resolves quickly either way. are you going to keep testing to see if it gets lighter or darker? can you ask for a beta on monday to see where the levels are still at?

 

[sarahincanada]

mobaby did you take any of these tests around the time of your d&c and if so how much darker were they? like almost control line, half the strenth of the control line?
I know you posted in the test section but perhaps ask in the MC folder as more people who have experienced MCs might know how high the hcg would be after 4 weeks (perhaps dont put the photo or explain in that section)

 

[MoBaby]

3 days before my d/c the line was the same color as the control. i posted in the pregnancy test forum as they seem to be knowledgeable there... the miscarriage section doesnt have much support i posted once and my post got ignored for the most part. Maybe I will go ask a question just to see if anyone responds. I actually just dipped another IC and the line looks extremely faint so maybe that one test is faulty? First time for everything I guess!

 

[MoBaby]

and now a couple hours later did another and its bfn so I am guessing faulty test for sure. Well, I am glad its BFN so now I know AF will start soon and we can move on to our next steps.

 

[ILuvBabies200]

Thanks ladies so much for the thoughts and prayers! My doctor wants me to wait this out and the pain is immense. I want this baby tested and the nightmare over. I have an appt with them next Wednesday and then they may plan the D&C. Just in shock that bean was okay just 2 weeks ago and now this. I want that ultrasound erased from my memory....

 

[Teta81]

Ugh, I don't understand!? Why won't they do a d&e?? I feel so terrible for you. I'm so sorry this is happening

 

[ILuvBabies200]

Ugh, I don't understand!? Why won't they do a d&e?? I feel so terrible for you. I'm so sorry this is happening

I didn't get a real reason why. This is just dumb. I'm supposed to call the office Monday with an update or go to the ER if I clot. I'm sure I will clot...It's a 7 week+ baby!!!

 

[MoBaby]

im still shocked they wont do it. my re gave me all the options and let me choose. can you see your ob and talk to them?

 

[ILuvBabies200]

im still shocked they wont do it. my re gave me all the options and let me choose. can you see your ob and talk to them?

I could call and see but they wouldn't see me about the pregnancy until I was discharged. So now they could deny this without all the paperwork. I don't know what to do.

 

[MoBaby]

Soo sorry you have to deal with all this bs ugh!

My hpt was neg this am so I'm calling faulty test. I'm glad it's bfn so now I can move on.