Megg33k
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Sorry, but I'm about to rant. You lot are the only ones who could possibly understand...
I've convinced myself I'll be getting bad news because I literally feel 100% normal. I'm usually symptom spotting by now, but I can't! Other than my boobs being mildly tender (which isn't abnormal for me whilst in cycle) and a hot flash here and there (as of tonight)... I have nothing. I don't even feel like they were transferred. So, I've caught myself assuming that means its over.
I guess its a bit early to count myself out... but I can't get the embryologist's words out of my head. They made my gorgeous (IMO) little embies sound like trash!
I don't know how to stop hearing that bit about "they might not survive"... I believe in them... But, its so hard when a professional pretty much tells you that its useless.
I had to hear so many awful things that day... "They're grade 3's, which isn't a good sign"... "They're weird"... "They look dark and too grainy"... "It indicates that they might not survive"... Then, the transfer went so badly, which could lower my chances again if it stirred up any blood or mucus in my uterus.
I'm frustrated, because my head and heart are in 2 different places. My heart has so much faith in them. But, my head says that I'm setting myself up for a fall if I believe. I spend most of my day trying not to think about it and failing. Only 1 week till I know, and I can't even imagine what news I'll be getting. I have no idea what to expect this time. I want to think I'll be celebrating, but I suspect I'll be in shambles again. And, this is it... I'm not going to be back in the game for over a year. That's a lot to face. I really needed this time to work...
I've convinced myself I'll be getting bad news because I literally feel 100% normal. I'm usually symptom spotting by now, but I can't! Other than my boobs being mildly tender (which isn't abnormal for me whilst in cycle) and a hot flash here and there (as of tonight)... I have nothing. I don't even feel like they were transferred. So, I've caught myself assuming that means its over.
I guess its a bit early to count myself out... but I can't get the embryologist's words out of my head. They made my gorgeous (IMO) little embies sound like trash!
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I'm frustrated, because my head and heart are in 2 different places. My heart has so much faith in them. But, my head says that I'm setting myself up for a fall if I believe. I spend most of my day trying not to think about it and failing. Only 1 week till I know, and I can't even imagine what news I'll be getting. I have no idea what to expect this time. I want to think I'll be celebrating, but I suspect I'll be in shambles again. And, this is it... I'm not going to be back in the game for over a year. That's a lot to face. I really needed this time to work...