IVF/ICSI/FET OCTOBER "4 LEAF CLOVER" CYCLE-Anyone joining me?*** UPDATES ON PAGE 1***

[wrightywales]

hi tori

i didnt have a scan before i started down reg. my first scan was 16 days after i started but i would check with your hospital to make sure hun. hope AF arrives very soon xx

 

[MrsF]

evenin!!!

sammy - it's a defo puzzle as to why your ironing ain't gettin done!!! It seems like you're doing everythin you should gal

thanks missmonty - fingers crossed my meds will be with us tomorrow before 12 in it's very discreet bag....

AF-3 wrighty!!! Here's hoping AF shows up on time - it shall be the only time it's welcomed i can tell you!!

tory - i agree with wrighty, i wasn't given a scan until the down reg kicked in as there wasn't much point in the beginning - defo get it checked out though bud x

good luck tomorrow glitterqueen

hello to ladies i've not mentioned

totally feeling the PMA at the mo, and i'm looking forward to acupuncture No2 on weds eve. and then starting meds on thurs when AF shows going away for the weekend to a family wedding so am looking forward to that. am loving the image of us all being fat and stuffed at christmas Sammy we'll all be in first tri, ready to move up to second

wrighty, we're hoping blasto will be on board for our wedding anniversary mid oct

to one and all x x x

 

[Sammy2009]

Wrighty - You could say you are on antibiotics for "mexican-mad cow disease" and the symptoms are that it makes you THINK you can drive... Lol

Mrs f- I know Hun... I just can't bloody understand it. I have just checked and it's still there now! I never realized ironing was so complicated !!!

 

[Sammy2009]

Glitterqueen - great that you are getting started. Good look with your apt tomorrow and let us know how it goes x

Tory - sorry I can't answer the question about the scan as I have only ever been on the short protocol so I have never Down regged but I'm sure some of the other ladies can help x

Wishing you all the best of luck ladies (yeah right, your not even going to need it!!!)

 

[wrightywales]

Wrighty - You could say you are on antibiotics for "mexican-mad cow disease" and the symptoms are that it makes you THINK you can drive... Lol

Mrs f- I know Hun... I just can't bloody understand it. I have just checked and it's still there now! I never realized ironing was so complicated !!!

 

[Isi Buttercup]

Hi lovely ladies. Sorry I haven't been around here in a bit.

Just to let you know that I saw my FS today (I still have another appointment for Thursday), and its looking like I will star down regging next week (October 2nd) . Can't wait!!!

Seems like a whole lot of us will be starting our meds soon. Wishing everyone the very best of luck!!!

 

[wrightywales]

hello ladies

hope your all ok

i will warn you that this is a bit of a rant so you dont have to read but they are things i feel like i need say and as you are more like my friends than my actual friends are you wont mind me having a moan

will im not in a good mood today. as my friends goes past the house without even popping in yet again ive realised that most of my friends havent actually bothered with me for a few months now. its always me visiting them. well thats not happening anymore. ive had enough. friendship is ment to be a 2 way thing. will im sick of making all the effort if they cant be bothered to visit and ask how things are going then they are not worth the title of being my friend. it really is making me angry. one friends excuse is that she lives to far away. we live on the same estate and it takes me 5 mins to walk there (so that excuse isnt working with me) and her kids go to the school right behind my house so she walks past my house 3 times a day but yet she doesnt visit but yet she can go to our other friends who lives further away then me it really is annoying me and has been for a few days now. see the thing that really annoys me is that it feels like they dont wont to bother with me as i dont have kids

thanks ladies for all your support so far and letting me moan feels good just to write it down and get it off my chest as i do find it hard to say things to peoples faces

to all xxx

 

[wrightywales]

isi - thats great hun good luck with your appointment on thursday and with starting your cycle nxt week. im hoping to start nxt week aswell will no more when AF arrives xx

 

[Isi Buttercup]

So sorry you're feeling hurt, Wrighty . I can imagine how painful it is to be treated that way. Maybe they just don't know what to say as they can't identify with this ttc journey. Try not to hold it against them hun. I know its easier said than done, but for your own benefit, it wouldn't do you any favours to be angry. Remember you have to make your body a nice, serene wonderland for those babies of yours. No room for any negativity. So let them go ahead and walk by your house. You're probably better off without them

 

[Sammy2009]

That is really shit Hun.... I can imagine how you feel and how disappointed you are, it seems we are both having the same sort of day as far as friends are concerned!


God I am so pissed off! This morning I forgot that I have to walk home and have high heeled boots on and also no key to get in so I called savannah on the way home to collect me and the heavy bag on her bike at the train station but her phone was switched off!! I told michal that I didn't know what to do as I couldn't walk 20 minutes home with a heavy bag and heels on. She didn't care. I told her I had no money for the bus and she just ignored me. When she got to the traffic lights instead of stopping to drop me off she turned left a d drove all the way up that road nearly to the petrol station then said "I'm sorry but I am going to drop you off here!" she dumped me even further than the metro station and I could barely even carry the bag. It took me 25 minutes just to get to the bus station alone. I was unable to go any further as my bag hurt and my hand was red raw from carrying the bag!

Ok it was nice of michal to take me home but for Fucks sake have some heart and compassion and just take me to my door on this occasion... It would be bad enough the fact that I would have to wait on the doorstep until savannah got home! I would have been much better off waiting until 7pm at Kemira if I knew she was going to do that to me!!!

I think it's awful... I would never dream of doing that to someone.

.. Above is a message copied and pasted which I have just sent to a good friend at work (not the one who dumped me obviously!)

I am now sitting alone in a bar waiting for savannah my daughter to call me so I can at least access my house! Grrrrr...

 

[Sammy2009]

Normally OH picks me up from work but he is one hour away stuck at work so she said she would take me home. It's partly my fault for forgetting to put flat shoes on and forgetting my key but I'm not used to having to walk home. I forgot I had to walk from the metro station so went shopping for food at lunch and the bag weighs a ton! She knew this... Knew I couldn't get hold of DD and knew I couldn't get in home. She dropped me even further away from home than yesterday and buffered off in her car a d didn't even offer to lend me 2.50 for a bus! It would have taken her 5 mins to just drop me off at the doorstep. What a stupid bint! I wish I had just waited at work for OH and sat on the Internet. Never again.... I'm so cross! What's wrong with people?

 

[Sammy2009]

Hi lovely ladies. Sorry I haven't been around here in a bit.

Just to let you know that I saw my FS today (I still have another appointment for Thursday), and its looking like I will star down regging next week (October 2nd) . Can't wait!!!

Seems like a whole lot of us will be starting our meds soon. Wishing everyone the very best of luck!!!

great news hun and the first step to success!!!

I have updated you on the main page

 

[Isi Buttercup]

Thanks Sammy

And gosh, I so feel your pain!! Walking in heels with a heavy bag....and THEN not being able to get into your house....sweetie, make sure you treat yourself to a long, hot bubble bath when you get home.

 

[wrightywales]

so gutted had a well good message all ready then my comp crashed and now i cant even remember what i wrote

sammy - sorry about your friend hun if you can call her that. dont stress out about it she defo doesnt sound like shes worth it. why offer you a lift if she wasnt going to take you home. hope your hand and feet arent hurting now. i cant wear high heels for that reason and the fact that i cant walk in them every time i try i end up on my arse. xx

isi - thanks hun. i feel alot better now. my best friend has been to visit so weve had a good chat and i know my other friends arent worth the stress. all i need is PMA in my life xx

well decided to have a relaxing night in. gonna have a shower followed by a face mask then i will do my hair and nails

hope you all have a nice relaxing evening xx

 

[maxxiandniko]

Hi there! Can I join this thread? I've been on other threads and it's looking like I'm going to end up here for a little while. Long story short I've been ttc for a little over a year and have had 1 mc last November and 1 chemical pregnancy this past April. I started with a fertility specialist early in August and as of today all my labs are officially in. Except for my husband's total sperm count being a touch low (all other parameters were normal so the doctor wasn't worried about the number) all my tests have come back normal. I have an appt with the doctor this Monday and at that time we'll start the ivf process. I'm over being upset that it's come to this and now I'm just nervous! I figured this was a good thread for me to go to. Thanks!

 

[wrightywales]

hi maxxiandniko

welcome to the thread hun. good luck with your cycle. are you on short or long protocol? im hoping to start end of this week beginning of nxt week. im on the short protocol. xx

 

[Tory123]

Hi girls

Hello maxxiandniko and welcome.

Sorry girls having problems with friends I think this is when you need love and understanding from them. I know sometimes they don't know everything that's going on but if its an equal friendship then you would put yourself out for them so they should for you. Don't worry when we all get our we will get our new friends as well as keeping the nice old ones x

I phoned the clinic today as I have arranged a holiday in a couple of weeks and didnt want to miss my ivf start but they have said i dont need no scan or blood until three weeks after day 21 so got loads of time seeing af has still not arrived.

Sorry another question did ovulation test today and it came back two lines so implying im ovulating at the min. Just about got another energy left to the question is does this mean my af will defintely come as I have ovulated?

Good luck everyone x

 

[maxxiandniko]

hi maxxiandniko

welcome to the thread hun. good luck with your cycle. are you on short or long protocol? im hoping to start end of this week beginning of nxt week. im on the short protocol. xx

I don't know. I spoke to my doctor a little over a week ago and he said that from the day we meet next which is Monday it'll be about 6 weeks till the procedure. At least that's what I think he said. He had just done my endometrial biopsy so all I was thinking about was the pain!

 

[Sammy2009]

Maxxiandnico - welcome to the thread... None of us are staying in here long cos we are all off to the first tri soon! Ha ha but your welcome to join until you move with us! let me know when you start and I'll add u to the list on page 1. Good luck x

Isi and wrighty - oh the pain was immense... I was nearly crying! Eventually I got in home then later OH came back and started asking me loads of stupid questions and whining and moaning so I have retreated upstairs before I commit murder... Sadly a relaxing evening is just wishful thinking right now

Pleased you sorted things out with you best friend wrighty!!! X

 

[maxxiandniko]

Hi girls

Hello maxxiandniko and welcome.

Sorry girls having problems with friends I think this is when you need love and understanding from them. I know sometimes they don't know everything that's going on but if its an equal friendship then you would put yourself out for them so they should for you. Don't worry when we all get our we will get our new friends as well as keeping the nice old ones x

I phoned the clinic today as I have arranged a holiday in a couple of weeks and didnt want to miss my ivf start but they have said i dont need no scan or blood until three weeks after day 21 so got loads of time seeing af has still not arrived.

Sorry another question did ovulation test today and it came back two lines so implying im ovulating at the min. Just about got another energy left to the question is does this mean my af will defintely come as I have ovulated?

Good luck everyone x

I don't know. I'm going to be full of questions myself shortly. I hope you're going somewhere nice on vacation though!