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No I think Id be a bit pissed also if my oh had 3 guys trips arranged, especially when girls so young. It would be loverly for us to have 3 girls trips ! but I know myself i personally wouldnt leave the boys. Dont get me wrong, I dont have an issue with him doing stuff or going places with friends but Id have to be happy that we had our family trips planned especially if his trips were for a few days at a time. Maybe make time If h can fit done girl days so u can get a break too.. I was only chatting to a Mum at school this week about a similar thing as her dh buggered off for day to watch goitvakk match on his mums tv and she was unwell with kids and had pms which didnt help ☹️His response when she nevtuoned it was I need some alone time ! Needless to say she needed her little vent at school ha x
Cookies sound awesome by the way
vroggers / glad L has settled a little with sleep this week .. wow ! a few whole night sleep through , I hope she does that for you when lo arrives !! Even just a couple of nights
I get it takes u a while to catch up yourself though , especially being pregnant x hope u get some time and feel rested soon.
Ali/ I know I replied to you in an earlier comment but sorry hon I was trying to fit in and reply to everyone so just noticed I didnt mention your FIL. Really sorry to hear he is so unwell. Im sure your poor dh is all over the place
. You have so much on at the min with your additional house guests and what not on top. Hope u get a little rest yourself. Im sure your house will be full of fun and very busy on Christmas morning with all those little bodies running round x I hope u r getting help prepping Christmas lunch if its you that is doing it for everyone .. hope u r not working hon x
Ally /slammer hope u r having nice weekend
Hope other ladies are well x
Well, My poor baby has a bad cough and feeling very sorry for himself really chesty ☹️.. hopefully pick up soon . Its his Christmas party for him and ds at nursery tonight, not sure we are going to make it.. I hope we can they really make a lot of effort for kids and I know Santa will be there ☹️. Maybe make an hr or so..
We went to oh sisters yesterday, not been for really long time but I suggested to oh we make an effort as two wrongs dont make a right as they havnt come to us either. Its nothing personal to them there has just been a lot of family stuff last few years with them losing a sibling to suicide
Im really glad I suggested it, it went really well and surprisingly natural which I didnt expect as Ive always felt a bit awkward in the past.
His sister always used to find a way of bringing my oh ex into conversation which I used to find really annoying. When we first got together she even suggested asking her to come to a family do at Christmas where they basically all fit in a small front room, I just didnt feel my feelings were being considered . She is bloody re married ha..why would she want to spend Boxing Day with her ex who she hardly spoke to and his new partner.. I dont know ?😣..Im not the clingy of jealous type at all but when ever she had been in same room as me prior to that she had blanked me and made it obvious in front of oh children who were teenagers which I felt was unfair as I made an effort for their sake. Anyway that little vent over haha.... we had a nice morning so that was good for oh. My ds and his little cousin who are both 4 had a crazy time all excited, they were soooo noisy but that made it more normal.. I know its harsh to say but it was kind of a sign that life goes on and I think I got a sense of that from oh family, it was first time some of them had even seen O and he is nearly one and of course he stole the show as he is so adorable and a little character x
Well after nice morning I had a bit of an eventful evening. I got very unwell with stomach cramps and feeling sick. Honestly, within 10 mins of being fine one min to feeling slightly sick I had horrendous sickness and running to loo with bowels and then there was blood in my sick which totally freaked me out as I was aware my gall bladder was really hurting, oh called an ambulance, was very cool and in control the whole time kept boys upstairs and called my mum to come. Ambulance was here in 3 minutes ! as was round corner.. all my obs were ok. I was just shook up and bit out of it. The only thing Id eaten was a sausage an hour before and just bits through day 😣which I maybe shouldnt have so not sure if it was my gall bladder reacting to that or some minor bug but I was ok an hour after, they said blood was prob from my throat and I just needed to keep an eye on myself and wait for consultant appt after Christmas 😣 so spent night on couch 😣.. what a drama .,
Although horrible at the time as i honestly felt I was going to pass out there was a funny side as I was txting my friend having a catch up as i started to feel ill and I said I felt a bit sick so id get off, then txt her back 90 mins later and explained that in that time Id been really ill in minutes, had an ambulance and now in couch with a quilt ! After her initial shock and worry about me her friendly advice was to stay away from all kind of sausages for the rest of the night !! Ha .. thats a friend that can turn something slightly bonkers into some innuendo lol x
). The timing of leaving for my sister's holiday party on Saturday was bad, with Jack nowhere near a nap, and an hour and 40 minute drive in front of us. He was ok for maybe half an hour and then just lost it. We were in stop and go traffic, and he wouldn't calm down and I was about to lose my damn mind. We were probably 30+ mins from my sisters when we called it quits. We were on the highway and I knew there was a mall not far off the nearest exit, so we bailed, went to the mall, got McDonalds in the food court. By the time we finished eating Jack was ready to sleep so we just got back in the car and drove an hour and 20 minutes home. 
He just lets me making choices sometimes and goes with the flow which can be irritating because then I feel like I need to be the adult and really weigh the options. I may just NTNP. We don't get much of a chance anyways. We've kind of been doing that anyways since I'm not on BC and my cycles can't be tracked. I even got ovulation strips to try and it's just always the same. Pretty sure my cycle is trying to come back but keeps being suppressed.
