Chelle, if my dh had the nerve to say that to me, I'd probably just laugh at him. Even at 40 weeks at my heaviest dh still outweighs me by at least 80lbs, he has absolutely no room to talk crap. Not sure if that is true with your dh, but at least you have a legitimate reason for gaining weight. And 12lbs is hardly anything.
Well I got my results from my gtt test today, no gd for me, but I am anemic, which explains my constant fatigue and inability to sleep well at night. My midwife had to prescribe me a special prenatal that has twice the amount of iron in it.