I have a diaper bag from my first, I don't even use it anymore for him so I'll just be using that one again. I'm terrible with bigger bags though, I find a way to fill them full of junk I don't need! It's why I stopped using it in the first place, I find it easier to carry around diapers and wipes in my car and use a small purse than a big diaper bag that usually ends up full of my crap anyway!
I'm sorry for your family's loss Athena.
Embeth, I probably wouldn't want them to go. I don't get/read a lot of news (I do prefer to not know, it just makes me sad!) but this one has been hard to miss. There's been so many attacks even outside of Paris, I just wouldn't trust anything like that. And, security doesn't always catch everything.
I'm so far from being ready. I keep thinking I should pack my hospital bag, and babies bag and my husbands really. But, there's so much going on around me at all times that just sitting here typing this reply is a luxury.