The midwife lady was lovely! Her name is Karla and she'll be my midwife during this pregnancy & labour. She stayed for a good 45 minutes, just chatting about what the one-to-one midwife service does, their approach to labour etc. It was good. Eleanor (our toddler) made a friend of her right away too, which was surprising as she's usually quite shy. Karla brought me some information, just the regular stuff about diet, the tests they offer etc and ... a 90 pack of folic acid!! Now, I've been taking it for 6 months anyway, so have plenty, but I honestly didn't expect that. I've never been given anything on the NHS without needing a prescription for it first. That was nice =)
There is a fair thingy on on the 4th of December with even more information and samples of things, so we'll probably go there. My next appointment with her will be on the 4th of January (next year, that's aaaaages away), I should be roughly 10 weeks then. By my own calculations I'll be 10+4. We'll discuss my medical background, any complications during my first pregnancy etc then. We'll also book me in for the NT scan then, and she'll combine that with a dating scan. Said scan should be mid Jan somewhere.
I'm feeling rather positive =)
I might try to talk DH into getting a private scan before then, to see if there's a heartbeat. Not only will it put my mind at rest, we said we could tell family after our first scan. With Miss Moo we told people after a scan at 7 weeks, it would be nice to do the same this time around and have people know by Christmas. Besides... our landlady has just told us she'll be putting £60 back into our account after the next rent, as a gesture towards Christmas. The scan is £65, so technically we'd only be £5 worse off? That's logic, right?