Slc I totally understand what you mean and I truly meant no harm....I always use the expression all is well when expressing love....I totally understand what you are saying about not knowing.....I just expressed that as examples I have experienced....when i had my scare last week, when i expressed it, it was comforting hearing other ppl's stories of success after circumstances.....but again, if it was seen the wrong way, I'm truly sorry....I just wanted to leve my peace and prayers, which i express as "all is well"...but understand what you mean about not knowing....sorry if I offended anyone...truly wasn't meant to in any way...and bean hunter u and your little bean are in my thoughts and prayers