Babygirl3289
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Hi ladies. I wanna get a c section this time around as I had such a hard time last time. Labour not progressing... Failed suction... Forceps deliver when baby was very distressed and ended up with a 3rd degree tear. Healing time seemed to be longer than anyone I know who had a section. So I would have been better off with one last time. I was told afterwards that my 8lb baby was too big for me. More than likely next baby will be bigger anyway. Is that enough reason to demand a section this time ? I can't talk to my doctor about it until I'm like 21 weeks and I'm just afraid they will refuse me or something ha not even sure if they can do that.
Keyval - I had 4th degree tears with my daughter and she had a prolapsed cord. My OB doc said I could choose either way. She said she would understand if I wanted to have a C-section due to the traumatizing experience and the trauma to my peri area . She is very supportive. If you explain how traumatizing it was to you , I am sure they will support what your wishes are