July testers - Over 35

[LLbean]

I use my THANKS as LIKE too so... ;-)

 

[hugs3409]

[Bubba3 - I've read as long as your DH has good spermy you can do it 3 days in a row. For men with low count, they need to wait 24-48 hours to build up their reserves. We try for cd12-cd14 but usually only make it 2 out of 3...

Though since can survive 3-5 days, then every other night is ok as well. When I was TTC this time around, I read to 3 times a week for best results. No need to dtd every night since they survive so long. 3 times a week, you should always have live swimmers in there [/QUOTE]

Hugs -that is true and that is why every other day works. But if you want to DTD 3 days in a row, it doesn't hurt. I usually can only manage that if it is a weekend. I'm too tired during the week and it's usually the last thing we do before going to sleep For my 2 DD - we DTD every other day. Isn't it crazy how there is so much different info out there - first grapefruit and now pineapple...I'm constantly learning new things! Hopefully we'll all get closer to that BFP [/QUOTE]

Oh no of course not lol. I am not one for every day lol. Every other day is good for me haha.

Struth that looks awesome. Give it a few days and do it again, I am sure it will be much darker. good luck

I agree we need a like button haha

 

[Macwooly]

I use my THANKS as LIKE too so... ;-)

Ditto

 

[Jennjenn]

Which one of you ladies does BBT only until ovulation is confirmed? I stopped BBT 3 months ago b/c it made me so emotional...

But I am thinking about starting it up again until I've confirmed ovulation to see if I can handle it emotionally. Of course I plan to use my digital OPKs as well, but I've been saying that for the last 2 cycles. I had a co-worker hide all my OPKs, BBT thermometer & IC pregnancy tests in her office so I wouldn't be tempted. yes I am crazy!

 

[Junebug_CJ]

I do BBT throughout, that is the only way FF or other programs can figure out when you O. Also, it is useful for me since as soon as I see a temp dip when expecting AF I know for sure I'm not pregnant and can stop POAS.

 

[Jennjenn]

I do BBT throughout, that is the only way FF or other programs can figure out when you O. Also, it is useful for me since as soon as I see a temp dip when expecting AF I know for sure I'm not pregnant and can stop POAS.

It was too hard for me once I made it to 12 dpo...I'd spend all my time at work surfing the net trying to analyze my temps.

I was just looking at your weight loss ticker - congrats!!! on your weight loss. I'm only 5'2" and I would like to lose 15-20 pounds. I can usually make it 1/2 way but not farther. Real life intrudes and I have so many other responsibilities with 2 DD and working full time How did you do it?

 

[Junebug_CJ]

I'm 5'1"

I work full-time too, and have a 13 month old!

My husband is at home with her during the day, and very supportive. I exercise for 1 hour after she's in bed on work days, and during the day Sunday/Saturday while she naps. I've cut out all junk food, allowing myself some ice cream a couple of times per week (I binge unless I have sweets once in a while) and added fruits/veggies. It has NOT been easy, but once I got into the habit of exercising, it's become routine. I change straight into my work-out clothes when I come home from work, then eat with my family, then give Zoë her bath/read story/night time bottle then exercise!

 

[Junebug_CJ]

I use my THANKS as LIKE too so... ;-)

Ditto

AWESOME!!! Love the BFP pics

 

[Jennjenn]

I'm 5'1"

I work full-time too, and have a 13 month old!

My husband is at home with her during the day, and very supportive. I exercise for 1 hour after she's in bed on work days, and during the day Sunday/Saturday while she naps. I've cut out all junk food, allowing myself some ice cream a couple of times per week (I binge unless I have sweets once in a while) and added fruits/veggies. It has NOT been easy, but once I got into the habit of exercising, it's become routine. I change straight into my work-out clothes when I come home from work, then eat with my family, then give Zoë her bath/read story/night time bottle then exercise!

When I am in the groove, I'm exercising at 9pm once the girls are in bed. I don't mind doing it that late, b/c the gym usually isn't crowded and I can do what I want. My husband is very supportive as well, but he went through a rough patch at work and he would come home so stressed. He's got a new job now. I am hoping things will get back to normal this week. I like that you put on your workout clothes when you get home...I'll start that.

Any specific exercises you recommend? I know I really need to focus on weight training as muscle mass burns more calories that my flabby arms!

 

[Junebug_CJ]

https://www.momsintofitness.com/

I love it! I'm doing the 60 day slim down Do it in my living room (can't get my butt to the gym after a long day's work), all you need are some hand weights. It combines cardio, toning and weight training. A LOT of core work too, my abs are even better now than they were pre-pregnancy! She also has pregnancy work-outs specific for each trimester which I already own, just waiting for my

 

[Jodes2011]

Jodes we were told we had to mc three times for investigations to start , which is exactly what happened. We never got to the bottom of why for us apart from being extremely deficient in ferratin ( iron stores) . I had infusions for a long time.
Time for them to listen Hun , don't stop until someone does x

I had no idea you've had 3 mc's so sorry for your losses OMG i've previously been deficient in iron stores maybe this is the problem? I haven't been taking my iron supplements because my levels have been borderline but i wonder if they've dropped again? Especially with all the blood loss it makes sense. I know they give my cousin a Vitamin C injection each month. I'm going to make an appointment with my doctor and get my iron levels checked. I think you've hit the nail on the head here. Thanks xx

 

[Jodes2011]

Jodes - sorry to hear your unfortunate news. Hopefully GP can figure out what is going on...I did read this on babyhopes.com. Someone should listen to you since it has happened a few times...

Most chemical pregnancies are due to chromosomal problems in the developing fetus. Other possible causes are inadequate uterine lining, uterine abnormalities both congenital or acquired like fibroids, low hormone levels, luteal phase defect or certain infections.

Thanks you ladies have helped me out so much i'm prone to getting UTI infections (had one last month was on anti-biotics) and bubba mentioned iron stores which i'm low on from time to time. But it could be anything? I've never had any issues with conception and pregnancy until this year and somethings not right? It's crazy!!!! I think i need to get back onto the iron supplements again. xx

 

[Jodes2011]

I'm 5'1"

I work full-time too, and have a 13 month old!

My husband is at home with her during the day, and very supportive. I exercise for 1 hour after she's in bed on work days, and during the day Sunday/Saturday while she naps. I've cut out all junk food, allowing myself some ice cream a couple of times per week (I binge unless I have sweets once in a while) and added fruits/veggies. It has NOT been easy, but once I got into the habit of exercising, it's become routine. I change straight into my work-out clothes when I come home from work, then eat with my family, then give Zoë her bath/read story/night time bottle then exercise!

Blimey your very good with your diet and exercise i'm 100% crap

 

[Jennjenn]

Jodes - sorry to hear your unfortunate news. Hopefully GP can figure out what is going on...I did read this on babyhopes.com. Someone should listen to you since it has happened a few times...

Most chemical pregnancies are due to chromosomal problems in the developing fetus. Other possible causes are inadequate uterine lining, uterine abnormalities both congenital or acquired like fibroids, low hormone levels, luteal phase defect or certain infections.

Thanks you ladies have helped me out so much i'm prone to getting UTI infections (had one last month was on anti-biotics) and bubba mentioned iron stores which i'm low on from time to time. But it could be anything? I've never had any issues with conception and pregnancy until this year and somethings not right? It's crazy!!!! I think i need to get back onto the iron supplements again. xx

I had a friend who had issues TTC and had recurrent UTIs. Once she got rid of the UTI she got pregnant on her 2nd cycle. I know she had to give up caffeine/sodas and make other dietary changes.

I've been pregnant 3 times and each time it was the first month we tried. Now that I'm 41 - I'm on my 8th cycle! Our family is usually fertile turtles! I'm chalking it up to age...

 

[Junebug_CJ]

Jodie definitely see someone for investigations. After 3 MC you qualify for a karyotype (looking at both you and DH's chromosomes) to make sure no subtle changes which increase MC risk. People with balanced translocations have good odds of having healthy children, but are also at risk for MCs. I assess, diagnose and counsel couples with these changes routinely in my Genetics clinic

 

[Jennjenn]

Junebug you sound like a real professional and just us googlers! Any helpful hints for TTC?

 

[LLbean]

Well if July is not successful I have contacted already a Fertility Specialist and I am now waiting to hear back as to when my appointment is for. I just want to make sure and not skip a beat.

 

[Macwooly]

Hoping you get your BFP this cycle but if it's not meant to be this cycle then I hope you're not waiting too long for your appointment

 

[wana b a mom]

hi ladies feeling very sad today my pregnancy ended this morning i assume i had a chemical. 3 miscarriages in one year i don't know how much more i can take.

Congratulations struth i am really hoping you have a happy and healthy 9 months xx

I am so sorry Jodes, let us know what the doctor says. We are all thinking of you!!!

 

[wana b a mom]

Morning ladies...

I woke this morning and my temp had gone up again, went to the toilet and nothing when I wiped, so I tested and.... I got a really light but definitely there on a FRER.

OMG.... I'm shaking. The OH in still in bed and won't be up for a couple of hours. Not sure how to break it to him - I hadn't mentioned my chart or anything to him. He's geared up for gynae appointments, SA results, and the long haul...!

Congrats!!!! that is wonderful!!!!!!!! have a safe pregnancy