Meli_H
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Jennc,
You are so right about the probable conspiratory conversation between DH and brother! Wow, you know my family so well
And about me taking a break from ttc not being a good idea--I think I totally agree with you. You make such sense. I play the what if game too!!! I just had a horrible conversation with my uncle (its a long story, and its posted on the new thread that Angel started for us) and that conversation completely changed my focus back to ttc, well see what happens, and like you said, whatever is meant to be, will be.
Sorry to hear that your sil is going through the same issues I did. I can imagine your poor nieces confusion. All I do is say nice things about her. I go out of my way to say nice things==I even make up nice things to say, because I dont want SS to feel bad. Even if he voices negative things, I always stick up for her and try to find the positives and slant it better for him. Because to do the opposite will only damage him. When he gets older and realizes that she chose to move with her baby daddy instead of him, and other behaviors she did, that will be painful enough for him. Because he WILL eventually realize all this, unfortunately. I wish I could re-write history and protect him from those realizations.
Sorry to hear that your cramps are painful, but YAY to officially be back in the ttc category! I think our cycles are pretty close--Im on CD4. GL with your drs appt. Im sure everything will be fine but its always a great idea to check in and make sure! I love your idea for a no-cost valentine idea! I want to do something no cost myself!
You are so right about the probable conspiratory conversation between DH and brother! Wow, you know my family so well
And about me taking a break from ttc not being a good idea--I think I totally agree with you. You make such sense. I play the what if game too!!! I just had a horrible conversation with my uncle (its a long story, and its posted on the new thread that Angel started for us) and that conversation completely changed my focus back to ttc, well see what happens, and like you said, whatever is meant to be, will be.
Sorry to hear that your sil is going through the same issues I did. I can imagine your poor nieces confusion. All I do is say nice things about her. I go out of my way to say nice things==I even make up nice things to say, because I dont want SS to feel bad. Even if he voices negative things, I always stick up for her and try to find the positives and slant it better for him. Because to do the opposite will only damage him. When he gets older and realizes that she chose to move with her baby daddy instead of him, and other behaviors she did, that will be painful enough for him. Because he WILL eventually realize all this, unfortunately. I wish I could re-write history and protect him from those realizations.
Sorry to hear that your cramps are painful, but YAY to officially be back in the ttc category! I think our cycles are pretty close--Im on CD4. GL with your drs appt. Im sure everything will be fine but its always a great idea to check in and make sure! I love your idea for a no-cost valentine idea! I want to do something no cost myself!