my hubster doesnt mind what i put on facebook, as for other people expressing opinions i have found the older people at work with kids, but live their whole lives through their kids very annoying.
for the last few years they have always been like, oh it will be like this and like that, you wont be able to do this and that. im like come on, you can still run your normal life to a degree, obviously just cant be as last minute and irresponsible as you could in the single days. i plan to not tell them until i really have to as i really cant be doing with their non-helpful advice.