Ladders I love that - it's the perfect way to describe it, not unhappy it's a boy but sad it's not a girl. I've read that a lot of people say once the baby (boy in this case) comes, it's impossible to imagine them as a girl; and that their little personalities will be unique regardless of their gender. It's also so weird to think these little boys (and girls) will probably never meet, but as their moms we all knew all about each of them before they were born!
Can someone remind me what the Facebook group is called? Thanks!