I dont think we can say what we would do, we might think that we would know but we dont. I read so many times when Maria on Corrie lost her baby that it wasnt like real life because people would scream and she didnt, I read I would scream, I would do this, I would do that, but when I found out my Honey had grown her wings I didnt do that, I said no, and then was silent, tears rolling down my face, now with Riley Rae I did scream no not again, and I sobbed and I was very loud. Same person, same situation twice, two different reactions. My point being, no matter how sure you are that you would say or do x, y or z, you dont actually know for sure unless it has happened to you, and even if it has happened to you, you cant be sure that given the same situation again your reaction would be the same