Aw mate, you are having a rough time for sure. Sounds like only your husband is well in your house. I think you're right though, it's best to get the poorlyness out if the way while you're not home alone. I remember when Frankie was brand new and DH had the two weeks at home, we spent a good four of those days in and out of hospital (Frankie was jaundiced and had a big weight loss by 10 days) it was nothing serious but I had so desperately wanted us to do all lovely things together before he had to go back to work. In the end, I found that I got to know a side of DH that I never knew about before, he cared for us both so well, especially as my baby blues were worsened by being in hospital. That time proved to be different to what I had wanted but still special.
We still have snow here but the roads seem ok and there is no more forecast so I'm not too worried now. I'm getting fed up though, not necessarily of the waiting but because Frankie and I haven't left the house in a couple of days because of the snow. It's been getting up and about that's been keeping me going lately. I think we'll be able to get out today, even if just to the supermarket. Got a MW appt tomorrow for a sweep, which I never had with Frankie. Not really looking forward to it but hopefully it will help.
Will keep updating. Hope all is well with Laura and Jen xx