Hi all! I'm still a week out from 3rd tri but I've been stalking here for a few weeks and just wanted to pop in and say Hello. I'm Jill, this will be our 3rd baby, and I'm due between July 12th and July 15th (depending on who you talk to). I'm considered high risk due to a history of miscarriage and this pregnancy has been plagued by worry and anxiety at the start but all has been well since around 14 weeks and baby is def a fighter.
Since I'm a 3rd time mom, hopefully I can answer a few questions for you first time moms.
Maternity clothes-I found most of mine at secondhand stores or garage sales but I have gotten some cute things at Target and Motherhood Maternity. I haven't had good luck with maternity pants though so I've been living in leggings of late.
Labor and Delivery-with my kids, I had natural hospital births. I won't lie and say it doesn't hurt cuz it does, but my labors started with really bad period-like cramps that gradually got more intense, closer together, and longer in duration. For pain management, I walked, used breathing techniques, sat on a birthing ball, and had DH put counterpressure on my lower back. When my contractions got unbearable, I was checked and told I was at an 8. I was pushing 30 minutes later so pain meds weren't an option anymore. And once you start pushing, you don't notice contractions anymore as you are bearing down against the pain. And everything pretty much stops once the baby is born. However, I want to add that everyone's labors are different. My contractions always stay lower down in my abdomen and wrap around my back. Other women have a tightening cramp over their whole belly and no back labor. Others yet have nothing but back labor. It's not something you'll really know unless/until you reach that point.
Epidurals-I've never had one but I know several ladies who have. The doctor numbs part of your lower back with a shot and puts a catheter. Then pain medication is delivered to your lower back through this catheter and you're numb from the waist down. They may turn down the medication when you start pushing so you can feel the contractions better though you'll still be too numb to move on your own. My sis says it usually takes an hour or two before feeling totally returns to her feet after they turn it off completely and you can't walk safely until then.