I know I'm shocked he said it because before he didn't really want to say! She hasn't got back to OH so I don't know if she was waiting to speak to her daughter or what! We can cancel the room up until the day but I want to know what's going on by the end of the month just like I've asked everyone to pay but the end of this month! She's had ages to tell me, the reason is (even though she didn't say it) is because MIL and her don't talk anymore, but this is since OHs Uncle died (their brother) last year so I'm not being funny she's had a long time to pull out, why is it only when we've hassled for the money that she's said, was she not going to tell me at all!!