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I just wanted to reassure you based on what I knew (this is my first as well, so all I have is what nurses and my OB have told me and research that I've dug up on my own). A doctor shouldn't be able to see anything other than a sack on an ultrasound until about 7 or 8 weeks I think (because the baby is just too small until that point). It's also common for a heartbeat not to be picked up until about 6 weeks. 16,000 is actually very good for only 5 weeks and 2 days. You're not having any bad cramping, are you? If not, especially since the bleeding has lessened, I would just kick back and relax and try not to worry. I'm sure that your bean is fine and that whoever you're seeing is just trying to scare you into unnecessary tests and procedures (unfortunately they do that sometimes to make more money). I would honestly think about the possibility of looking into a new midwife or OB.
I just wanted to reassure you based on what I knew (this is my first as well, so all I have is what nurses and my OB have told me and research that I've dug up on my own). A doctor shouldn't be able to see anything other than a sack on an ultrasound until about 7 or 8 weeks I think (because the baby is just too small until that point). It's also common for a heartbeat not to be picked up until about 6 weeks. 16,000 is actually very good for only 5 weeks and 2 days. You're not having any bad cramping, are you? If not, especially since the bleeding has lessened, I would just kick back and relax and try not to worry. I'm sure that your bean is fine and that whoever you're seeing is just trying to scare you into unnecessary tests and procedures (unfortunately they do that sometimes to make more money). I would honestly think about the possibility of looking into a new midwife or OB.