Jesse is a doll!!!
Sam, I would not even bother with them anymore to be honest. It sounds like they are very close minded woman, and not worth the time or day or energy you put into it.
Like the others said, Breast/Bottle..Co Sleeping, etc are all PERSONAL choices, and if you do not agree...don't say anything. Not one person is a better mother because they do things differently , we all have our own ways of parenting and instead of judging we should accept and respect one another for it.
On the topic of the big C....lol a lot of bos over here have it done, I think pretty much 90% of the baby boys I have seen or changed diapers have had it done. I would do it, but thats my choice...I would do it so my son looked like his father down there..and when he was potty training or anything I don't want him to feel different than his dad..but I would never say a boy who does not have it done is gross..because it's not. Like one of the girls said..the penis is so ugly....regardless of what trimming and fluffing you do to the damn thing, it's still nasty haha.