boothh, I'm not bothering with follow-on milk (or, when we get to them, toddler's milks), I don't think there's any need, he can stay on the regular formula till he is a year old, till I decide to give cow's milk. it's a marketing ploy - the only way manufacturers can legally advertise formula in the UK is for babies of 6 months +. they are not allowed to advertise stage 1 milks. they advertise follow ons as though they are better than the alternative, with regard to iron, etc, but they are not really when compared with stage 1 formula, only compared to cow's milk, which you wouldn't be giving as a drink yet anyway. apparently the extra iron in the follow on milk is useless to babies as they can't absorb it and it makes them constipated. if they have a varied diet they should be fine.
shiv & boothh, that's awful about poor Sophia's and Jesse's skin
poor babies, must be so distressing for them itching and not understanding why.
I hope they get some relief soon.
cleck, we've only given Adam one meal a day so far, and not every day, BUT if he has been asleep in the evening and I make us dinner I don't know if he smells it or what but he is awake and bright-eyed and wanting some, so it's been an evening thing for us and I guess that'll continue. whether I give him breakfast and/or lunch every day is another thing. depends if he looks like he is interested. actually I think right now might be a good time. either that or a walk. he's had a bottle and a poo/nappy and is irritable. DON'T think he'll sleep. hmmm. maybe a rice cake and some pear will help.
eta: sat him in highchair, offered ricecake and apple slices and - happy, busy baby for 1/2 hour. now sound asleep. hmm, think my plan to move only gradually to 3 meals a day is failing already.